My friend found out I'm over-employed and basically called me unethical. Am I in the wrong here, or do they just not get the hustle?

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It’s wildly unethical to exploit laborers to the degree that nearly every corporation does. It’s not unethical to not place undeserved loyalty on companies who would fire you the second it was financially prudent.

You’re not doing anything wrong. Most people still believe the “My company cares about me, and wouldn’t let me go even if times got hard” propaganda that they’ve been taught their whole lives.

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My first thought...How did they find out? First rule of OE is not to discuss it. Second thought....your friend's opinion shouldn't matter. You have your reasons for what you are doing and it's not a great friend to be judgemental.

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Not saying I’m against it, but if it was ethical you wouldn’t really feel the need to hide it

Andrew the imbalance of power is due to supply and demand. In 2021 the power was held by the employees and employers had to bend over to get them or keep them.

If you are supposed to be giving full 8 hours every day to a company and you’re not I’d say it’s a bit unethical. If you are working two jobs fully and putting in expected hours each week for both then it’s not.

The ethical issue isn’t holding two jobs, it’s doing two jobs at same time when both employers believe you’re giving their job your full attention.

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