My sister in laws are insane. Apparently I stole their brother. That said, they are demanding a relationship with my kids. Would you allow your kids to be around and attend events with someone who doesn’t like you?

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If they were good to my kids and my kids wanted to hang, I’d allow it. Kids deserve lots of family to love on them.

Now, if they are actively talking trash about me to my kids or otherwise damaging my kids emotionally, then no.

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The cow comes with the calf!! If I can’t come my kids can’t come!

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I came to a realization long time ago if we are not friends, we are not family, with exception to my parents and siblings.

If I was you, kids will go if husband is going and can take the kids without me.

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Honestly no lol why would I trust someone with my kids who doesn’t like me? I would only allow it if I’m there

O(h wow. I am so sorry to hear that. That sounds like a really difficult situation to be in. I am really sorry you are going through that.

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