My wife is pregnant with 2nd child , my kids are the only thing keeping me in this marriage, she doesn't respect me or my parents, she is working women, and household stuff taken care by mom and kids too during office hours or even later, she doesn't care about if I m saying or asking somthng. Too rude (narcissist).

C is like her father who is too dictator, he scolds my wife on silly things whenever she visits them(almost half yr she stays atfather place

Too much stressful situation for me,

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she is a case of an abused childhood, you need to talk to her regarding her behavior and find a way to take her to a psychotherapist.

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So what is question here?

No , It's not normal.

First thing is you have to stop her to stay with parents. She can visit for few weeks in year.

Second is talk to her and tell your expectations and also try to know why she behave like this.(may be she is not liking something and showing it in other ways instead of directly saying)

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