Need a little optimism. My boyfriend and I just ending things after 7 years. I’m almost 28, thought he was the man I was going to marry. Would love to hear how you met your husband outside of school/college? 💞

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Some people say church, doing fun stuffs they like e.g surfing, running, etc and most times prayers! God works and grant us heart desires

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Met mine through a mutual friend at a single’s Valentine’s Day party 😂 at the time I wasn’t even looking to date anyone so it just worked out. Keep your head up! Give yourself time to grieve and then get back out there

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Definitely +1 to meeting people at any activities you enjoy yourself - you’ll meet people with similar hobbies. I also think it doesn’t hurt to get set up by friends or meet people at a friend’s party or gathering!

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But you work at Goldman, how did you even found out time to date 😆

Friends circle?

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