Probably tmi, but someone I hook up with likes to choke me and slap my face (and I enjoy it). But I realized tonight that my face is very swollen because of it. Any advice on how to reduce swelling so no one at work asks any questions?

Anyone noticed that with aerobic / cardio exercises it gets more difficult to focus? It is like my mind a TV and someone else gets the remote and goes through every channel every 30 seconds or so

For anyone who has a consistent exercise routine can you explain if it has helped you manage your ADHD symptoms and all the different ways it has helped?

Setting aside dry January (for those who partake), how many days per week do you consume alcohol? What day (before today) was the last day you consumed zero alcohol? For those working from home, what is the earliest you have started drinking on a work day? (Any difference on Fridays?)

Wondering if I should look into anxiety meds (or if I’m just a baby and need to get used to this life).

Have you tried any? Did it help? Affect your productivity? Which ones? tya!

Hi there!!

🥰🥰
I just want to say that I'm queer and married, in a Cis-hetero passing relationship 🤭

Do we have to talk about dating like all the time?

Can't we talk about other stuff? Like promoting THE AGENDA (jk)

No, but FR let's talk about being open and accepted in the workplace? How did you do that? How (un) friendly is the work environment?

Thankyaaaaaaaalll 😘😘😘

When you're on FB in the bathroom for too long and the automatic lights turn off...

Is it common to get more and more conservative after highschool? Throughout high school I considered myself a leftist even at one point liking Bernie. But now over time I see myself getting more conservative. ( Not the anti mask/ anti vax kind) I seem to align myself more and more with individuals like Romney. Is this common?

Girlfriend has very obvious high functioning anxiety and body image issues that she admits but thinks she doesn’t need therapy or medication and that reading self-help books will help her. It’s not changing in the last several years and it’s impacting our relationship. Anyone have experience with their SO dealing with untreated anxiety? I know I can’t control her but would like to express my feelings without sending her into a spiral. For context, I’ve been in therapy for 12 months and medicated

How many of you already have life insurance and long term disability with a trusted provider? Is it worth getting?

Any kind soul willing to let me bum off their becker 🤓 mines expired and Wiley is well... not good

What do you do for your neck to prevent wrinkles? Just moisturize? Is there a special formula or routine you use?

Hello all

Could you please let me know the insurance coverage in Lti.

Would like to know coverage per person and is there option for floater against complete family.

Thanks in advance

Trying to decide between soylent or huel as a meal replacement 1x daily. Anyone have recs? Goal: shed ~5-10 lbs and keep it off over the next few months.

What's next after healthcare for you all?

Gay men think having a muscular body makes up for a mediocre career, lack of emotional or intellectual depth, and think they can pull dudes that have it all. Think again scrub 😌

M here.

Anyone for catch up and explore good places evening or tomorrow?

Starting at BCG in about a month. How have those working long hours able to find their SO? Should I give up on looking for an SO and try the toxic hookup culture? 23/M for reference.

Anybody in Arlington (Ballston area). Where can I go running? Any nearby trails that allow to keep distance from others.

Hi,
If anyone interested in NFT project HMU. Looking for partners

A real gem from Henry Ford: "stopping advertising to save money is like stopping your watch to save time."

I have joined infosys today . Having experience in IoT , Azure and. Net
Is there anyone can guide me to land in azure project in infosys.
I'm not confident the Talent Acquisition or HR team will gave the exact technology as per our Intrest or skill.

I was recently laid off and I am actively search for a new role. I am mainly targeting ScrumMaster, Product Analyst, and Business Analyst jobs, but I am open to others.

Must be located in Austin, Texas or fully remote.

EXP
5 Mo- Business Analyst 3
1.5 Y- Venture Capital Associate
1.5 Y- Strategic Planning Analyst

Certifications
ScrumMaster
Specialist Accounting and Finance
Specialist Business Intelligence

Contact
737-707-5156
ajaspercannon@gmail(dot)com
www.linkedin(dot)com/in/jcstrategy

Hi. I carry 5 plus years of experience. I have experience working for jp Morgan, Silicon Valley Bank. I have experience with loan servicing, collateral, Documentation and bilateral role. Risk assessment. I have experience also with QA as well I'm looking for a job can any one please refer me.

So I’m only contributing to 401k enough to get employer match, and I’m saving an additional ~20% and putting 90% of that into my vanguard mutual funds. Reasoning is that I don’t want to lock away all that money maxing out 401k. Have 3 months expenses liquid in a savings account. Is this really dumb? Essentially trading tax for the option of actually using my money.

I have just got an options trader job at a prop trading firm. But I knew nothing about options/trading/finance. The firms said they’ll be officially training us once we start. But in the meantime, what are some books/resources that you would recommend to start learning first?

What is the most compact stroller you recommend? What is the difference ebetween using a travel stroller and a regular one?

Today is joining day. Nothing happened. Onboarding is said to be virtual but no link was received. Any one else having different experience?

What is the base salary for Senior 1 in Gds tax currently? Anybody please?

How is M&A right now? Is this industry currently short of work or short staffed? Trying to figure out what my chances are to get in

I've been working in sports for 15 years. Looking to branch out to adjacent brands or industries. Awards from Clio Sports, PRINT, ADDYS.
I've worked as a graphic designer, interactive designer and creative director; freelance in the NFL, MLS, Premier League and PGA Tour; and have written about sports marketing for Adweek & Adidas.
Remote with occasional travel is preferred. I have been working remotely my entire career and would love to chat with likeminded folks that are location agnostic.

Hi all,

I would like to hear out your opinions on internal salary negotiations at the back of promotion.

I'm a Business Analyst with over 10 years experience, been in the same company for the whole time, Currently, I'm below Average Industry standards by approx. 10% for my (current) role.

I have applied for internal job which is effectively one level above, meaning it would be a promotion.

I got the job, awaiting offer.

Average Industry Salary for the new role, according to online research,

Phone interviewed with Amazon hiring manager, and was told by HR that are still waiting for more details on the next steps after 1 week. What does this mean?

Hello everyone , Please can someone share the compensation structure for sales analytics lead L6 roles for AWS Canada. And are there any tips on which component can we negotiate and tips for negotiation. Thank you in advance.

What all perks do you get being a part of Barclays India??

There’s this guy at work I really like. We’re really really good friends but I’ve caught feels since the day I met him and I just want to tell him how I feel but I don’t want to ruin our great friendship. He’s the closest friend I have.

Almost midnight here and I'm cleaning my medicine cabinet so I can reboot having a regular skin-care routine. I'm listening to one of my favorite musicals, "Ragtime", specifically the song "He Wanted to Say". Living 9 time zones away from home out of the US and watching the BLM movement there, unable to do anything concrete about it from here - this song I've listened to countless times, today about brought me to tears.

I really don’t mean this to virtue signal - just wanted to share a moment.

Anyone Boston next week?

Hi there!!

🥰🥰
I just want to say that I'm queer and married, in a Cis-hetero passing relationship 🤭

Do we have to talk about dating like all the time?

Can't we talk about other stuff? Like promoting THE AGENDA (jk)

No, but FR let's talk about being open and accepted in the workplace? How did you do that? How (un) friendly is the work environment?

Thankyaaaaaaaalll 😘😘😘

There’s now a lawsuit in Texas challenging PREP. How much longer do y’all plan to live in the US? This is actually how I predicted this would unfold. That folks with moral objections would file a lawsuit like this, and then get it up to The Church for review, and then overturn Lawrence v Texas. This is just happening a lot faster than I thought.

Gay men think having a muscular body makes up for a mediocre career, lack of emotional or intellectual depth, and think they can pull dudes that have it all. Think again scrub 😌

Overseas on a study and finding a hot expat to help me with some in-room dining.. sometimes we get food. This job is alright sometimes

Anyone at the Q center today/this week?

Seattle vs San Diego?

How do you shave/trim your beard without dropping the hair in the sink or on the floor? 🙏

things to do in Vegas? favorite restaurants, hotels, spas, etc?

Any Brooklyn people wanting to network/chat?

I thought having unprotected sex with my partner was the ultimate expression of trust in a relationship, but then I loaned him money yesterday. Far more nerve wracking 😬

I want to buy my husband some underwear for Valentine’s Day. What brand do you guys like?

I met someone in the new city I moved to but they work for Fox News. They are a good person but I can’t get over their employer and they said I was immature for that. Are all companies under the wrath of capitalism so I should overlook that? Or has Fox brought too much hate to the gay community to even consider a relationship while he works for them. Thoughts?

I need to switch teams or firms. Been here for a year and no development or projects with my team. Gay network help! Lol

Thoughts on the term “latinx?” I see A LOT of straight “Latinos” reacting poorly to it.

I know I will get hated by saying this. Do you think gay pride events are portraying a bad image about our community to public? (Drugs, sexual, inappropriate clothes, and sometimes like strip clubs- some parts). I know it is right to present us but I just feel it is not the right way to show who we are. I wish the pride where everybody can connect in a more friendly way (outdoor game- team work, dance, drink something not too sexual.) there are some good parts of pride tho. Any opinions?

Did Someone say jockstrap Friday?

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(