Recently interviewed for a dream job.
Now as I wait for a response and the tension builds I find myself thinking more about wanting to drink (I have 8 months so far). Cont.....

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How are you feeling now that you’ve posted this? When I share with people and get honest, it usually helps with the cravings

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Stay connected to your program and whatever you don’t want to (like going to meetings), double down. I had two job changes in my first two years of sobriety and each time I made my job my HP. I didn’t go out, but it triggered all alcoholic thinking. Stay close my friend

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What’s new is the more I think about drinking the more determined I am not to have one and relapse.
Anyone else found a newfound inner strength from stress/adversity?

With my stress and anxiety it's way better having one less thing to worry about.

Keep it up!

SA1 - Sharing helps. But also a little guilt for feeling strong, with a good dose of fear because it might just be the disease fucking with me 😕

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I did a “meet the team” interview 2 weeks ago and now the hiring manager set up a call on Tuesday. Is it safe to assume that’s a call to extend an offer?

If that’s a reasonable assumption, could I let another company (finished interviews last Friday) know ahead of time on Monday that I’m expecting an offer in the hopes of speeding up their decision making?

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I have cleared all rounds and already submitted documents and HR discussion happened..
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Any BUsiness Analyst here who got call from HCL for interview on saturday?

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I am a new joinee to CTS . It's going to be a month now and I haven't received my laptop.

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I am not sure whom to reach out to for any query and to some people whom reached they don't respond with any answer .

What can I do to get a working project as i don't want to sit idle?

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Anyone successfully take STD or extended long term disability for final IVF procedure? I’d like to take 6 months, Destress before hand then go into extraction. Docs say if this doesn’t work they recommend I move onto other options so I want to give it a fair shot. My clinic will fill out fMLA / medical forms but not sure who ultimately decides the duration. Should I also consider other mental health leave alternatives? Thank you!

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Hello people, how common is a Amazon to PWC move ?
I’m interviewing for a Senior Associate role and TC seems to be more competitive than role in L5.

TC $114k- Base AMZ- $73k +$38kstocks ( vesting 17k$ due next year)

TC $135k Base PWC -$81$ + Bonuses ( 50k$)

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God is so inspiring...

// I'm actually very happy whenever someone beats any terrible disease, even then the amount of cancer beaters is quite overwhelming lately.

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I am a young professional... But every job interview I’ve had so far pretty much just wants to know what kind of person I am. They are as interested in my leadership/communication as much as they are in me talking about my experience.

(“Real jobs” in accounting, finance and private equity.)

Is this how it will always be? Or is this predominantly because I am in lower positions at this point in my career?

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Hi Fishes,

I applied to one of the roles and after initial screening I happened to see in the website that there are no suitable openings for my profile.

I heard that the cool off period is six months. Does that apply to my situation because I didn't attend any interview.

Can I use referals to apply before 6 months? Or should I wait for 6 more months?

Thanks for your help.

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Hi Fishes,

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8 years sober today! I love AA.

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just hit 1 year of sobriety. only went to one AA meeting my 1st week of getting clean, but tired of strong-arming it and feeling the need for community lately - good meetings in downtown nyc or bk?

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4 years today. #grateful #keepcomingback

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4 years next month

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