Saw this girl, 5’3 and skinny, in my apartment complex trying to move a heavy box. About to ask for my help, I walked by without stopping, she gasped. I don’t help girls who are alone because I’m not willing to risk my freedom just to be a nice guy.

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Oof. The red pill incel vibes are strong with this one.

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Hopefully you’ll stay away from younger guys with your simp infection

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OP. I have a teenage son; and truly fear for him venturing out in this world; so please understand this is said with a mother's love:

Stop Listening to Podcasts. They are rotting you from the inside out.

Help with the package, but don't enter her apartment, leave at the door.

When the time comes listen for an enthusiastic "yes".

This is how you safely meet & connect w/ new people; and you do need to get out and meet new people.

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Seriously- your son will be just fine. Stop listening to podcasts that stoke fear about the world

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If you actually talked to women you’d understand how absurd this is

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I’ll take it

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Yeah, this didn’t happen

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So funny my bro (not)

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This kind of thinking only proves how dire rape culture is, and how much we as a society don’t condition men to understand what consent is. you’re so afraid of being falsely accused of harassment you refuse to even engage, because you don’t know the difference between a normal interaction and something that can be perceived as harassment.

Almost as if…. Asking questions goes a long way. Like, “hey, do you want help?”

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OP, ignore this one. It’s not your job to rehabilitate them or repair the damage done in their womyn’s studies seminar.

How would helping make you risk your freedom?

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He’s listened to too much andrew tate and is an incel loser.

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Yeah I'm sure if you said, "would you some help?" you would have ended up in jail

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You know who was actually worried? Her

Bro go get laid

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I tell you what didn’t get laid, that box. It was too heavy

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1. Fake news 2. This is what’s wrong with humanity.

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Not fake news. This is a clarion call, a canary in the coal mine moment to all the young guys, like me, out there who haven’t been whipped into submission by this society or as you say “humanity”

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This is how weak men justify not being able to lift things

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I wish I had the forethought

You sound like a real winner. Your parents must be so proud.

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You know who wasn’t laughing? That girl. I wish you were here to show off your big strong muscles

I don’t care, girl or guy, I see someone struggling I ask them do you need a hand. I will help them get it to their door and push from the doorway not going into the home because either a guy or girl can claim I tried to do something or vice versa try to do something to me (I am 5’2” overweight female not good looking so not a “target” person but I won’t take a chance)

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You know who was struggling? That girl

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I think you’re overthinking lol. It’s not that deep.

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I don’t get it lol

weak plus kind of obsessive? A confident man doesn't feel his value is threatened by being kind to a woman.

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You know who was weak? That girl

But what if you were a bear?

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Hahaha, let ‘em choose, right?

Interesting. I just started watching The Morning Show on Apple TV+…

I get the paranoia, but I was raised to be a gentleman, but I’ve seen innocent men get accused falsely but I’ve met innocent women who were actually SA/RD. Unfortunately in today’s world people are extremely polarizing on these views, people are much more promiscuous allowing for more opportunities for incidents (false claims and real claims), anything and everything can be quickly be made viral and ruin your life.

I would have approached. Ask the question clearly to get consent to help. Carefully read her cues. And leave everything at the door.

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M6, thanks for being a honest broker. As you can see throughout this thread, you have a monopoly on that virtue. There’s one other poster who has been good to read.

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Seems like you want to get it on with the box.

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Oh, the box was big and beautiful

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I think your impulse to avoid women is exactly correct.

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My impulse to avoid a “trouble*. Fixed it for you

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You’re a weak minded person.

What does hight and body size have to do with it. You saw a person that needed help and just rushed past.

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Maybe. But she was weak in strength. So I guess it equals itself out

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When you walked passed her, you should have yelled "who's gonna carry the boats!" She would have understood that you're helping her become the strongest version of herself.

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Hahahaha this is good! Time to put that woman strength to the test

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