So sick of attitude between coworkers. Stop being jerks and let’s just get the task done. Feels like everyone needs to show their tough guns and just end up being a-holes to each other.

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Not sure what it is about this industry that can bring out the absolute worst in people

In seven years I've meet some of the greatest, smartest people I will ever know. Unfortunately, I've also met more than my fair share of . . . others.

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I agree with the sentiment yet just saw another post joking about drowning an account person or strategist, so not sure changing asshole behavior is in the cards. And I guarantee you it wasn't "just a joke". I guarantee you the poster is an asshole in real life to real people.

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"Tough guns" has me envisioning oiled biceps being flexed in a ridiculous manner.

Your point, though...it usually takes some leadership to get people to work well together. Could legit be just a couple of assholes stinking things up, but there's often something driving that kind of behavior, encouraging it, or at least tolerating it. Some people need to be reminded why respect is important.

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@ibm1, oh yeah ok let me just leave after years of being here and start something new. No, it’s not the culture of the industry, perhaps culture of the agency but I’ve been places where it isn’t crap and places where it is. Each one has their asshole(s), some just more than others.

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Leave the industry then. It's not the people, but the culture.

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