Tam Brahm female fish, the arranged marriage scene is brutal. Most guys don’t want consulting, occasional drinking and chicken and late night and long work hours. And fam wants tam brahm only. 😔

My live-in bf of 6 years and I just broke up. Our lease is ending in 2 months, but I’m considering moving back home to Chicago. Would that be a bad move considering my office is in NYC & quarantine might end sometime this year?

Just looking to meet someone here, a little about me, I’m a 27 years old guy , work in finance, love playing tennis and eating Italian food. Also I have aspergers.

What would you do if you didn’t need money? I have a fair amount coming one day and don’t actually need to work to live a good life (middle / upper-middle class). I work because of this vague notion of “ambition” and because everyone I grew up around is highly competitive and hard driving. I just feel unhappy so often and am wondering what this is all leading to. Scared I’m wasting my life being unhappy / in turmoil cause it’s what my culture wants me to do.

Curious what people's age ranges for dating are. There's the classic "half your age plus seven" rule, but wondering if that's actually followed.

Please comment below with your age, gender, and range.

Just curious, do people from this bowl still do sexting?

I think teaching on line was more work than face to face learning but I am willing to learn new skills for a new normal that helps keep families safe. However, do you think that for the future a combination of the two will work best for our students especially in light of how our society is heavily information based?

30M, up for chat!

Any people looking to date in Atlanta ? 40 F

31M and bored in self quarantine. Any F looking to chat?

Does Chicago have a secret sex society ?

How do you find a healthy balance between your job and your personal life?

Not a confession, for myself at least but need advise. For those who have been divorced when did you know you couldn’t fix the relationship?

I'm on a beach in Florida and a guy walks up to me and is like "you're from Texas, huh?" And I'm like "yeah, how'd you know"? And then I realize how he knew...

Single desis abroad, how often do you visit home? How do you deal with having no social support system? Do you miss home?

When did you know you were falling out of love with your partner? Did you fix it, or break things off and why?

In search of stories to hopefully understand a phase in my own long term relationship.

How common are prenups in UK among middle-class? I'm thinking of asking my SO for one but I worry it would be viewed by anyone else as a one foot-out-the-door kinda situation. I'm just trying to be safe with little I have, seeing my friends' marriages.

Best Christmas things to do with a two-year-old?

A guy that I’ve been seeing over the past few months just lost his job - what can I do to support him? Not his SO and we are quarantining with our respective families on opposite coasts, but I like him a lot and want to show that I care without being overbearing/overstepping boundaries. BTW he’s also a consultant and got let go after reviews due to performance reasons and his firm not doing so well.

How to get over a girl who’s still always on your mind? Dated for 4 years, broke up beginning of July. One of those situations where you really think it’s “the one”. She has seemingly moved on pretty easily, which just hurts even more. I keep replaying scenarios in my head and wonder if there’s a chance at a future with us together again. 😔

What are your book recommendations?

What are the 1-3 things that help you find meaning in life? Whether it's your work, friends, family, a cause you support, or something else

How do you network at events if you’re an introvert?

Anyone have any advice/best practices on the best way to collect feedback in a workshop?

Just began studying for the CFE exam. I have access to past editions of the ACFE Fraud Examiners Manual. Does anyone have recommendations on where to get good practice questions? I’d like to avoid spending a fortune on the ACFE kit.

Hello Guys ,
I have interview KPMG in few days
For SAP AUDIT role
Could you please give tipes?🙏
Thanks in advance .

What’s a good baseline amount to keep in a checking account? I generally keep mine pretty low <1000 after paying CCs then dump the rest in savings. As I’m building a rainy day fund and then I will start contributing my brokerage account.

For reference <1 year experience at $4500/month (after taxes and 401k contribution)

Are there any internships for recent graduates? If so can someone point me in the right direction? I just graduated with a bachelors in business administration with a concentration in social media marketing.

NYC vs LA.

Decisions to be made.

Where would you live, and why?

Happy New Year!

Should I lease a car or buy it? Which is better? Does it impact the insurance rate?

Could you Please DM me if any one working in AMAT


Thanks in advance

Interviews are really something... Highest highs off good experiences and lowest lows off rejections. I just might keep doing this as a masochistic pastime 😅

Any loan facility available in BOA

Will Cognizant offer 35 lpa for 11 years exp. And senior manager role?

Anyone at PwC or BDO looking to pick up some referral bonus cash?? Have 1.5 YOE in audit, NYC, looking for FDD roles. DM me!

Does it make sense to take a pay cut if given a chance to join the corp dev team of a growing company? Currently a manager in Fdd

I am looking for a job and already on NP. Holding an offer of 23.5 LPA fixed and current CTC is 17 LPA fixed. Am I still under paid? And how much would a realistic target CTC for 9 YOE in .Net Full-stack?

Anyone else fee like old town is a super young crowd now?

I’m 28M and I used to think it was a place for ppl in there mid-late 20s. Last few times I’ve been out there I feel like half the ppl barely look 21?

Eta on when bars will be fully open? 🧐

Starting my house search ❤️ Does this group have recommendations for an good buyer’s agent in the Chicago area? Looking to buy in Lakeviee, Edgewater, boystown maybe even Evanston.

Hi all, getting ready to rent my place and wanted to get a sense for what I can get in rent. Light filled 2B2B, 1450 sq ft. with gorgeous views of the lake from every room. Waive to the blue angels during the air and water show! Near montrose and lake, easy access to public transit, and full amenity building (gym, pool and laundry). Looking for a 18 month lease. Also, appreciate any tips on renting, do you just pick a standard contract or hire a lawyer, what about background checks, realtors?

Anyone know where to get free covid testing near west loop with fast turnaround time for results?

Recommend some small, ethnic restaurants or grocery stores we can support this winter

What are best buildings to rent a 2 bedroom in Chicago within the $2400 to $3000 range?

Anyone looking to sublease an apartment in downtown Chicago for the month of June ? I have a 1 bedroom in the aqua building(225 n Columbus) corner unit, fully furnished. 850 square feet, with a balcony and amazing views. Steal deal if someone is interested with an option to extend the lease.

Anyone live/lived in the presidential towers in West Loop? Looking at 1 beds and they’re about $200/$300 cheaper than most other spots in the area…

Just wondering what the catch is, if any?

Anyone interested in playing tennis this summer? I'm trying to get back into it on a more consistent basis. I'm about a 4.0 and live downtown. Please DM if interested. M here if that matters. TIA!

Does anyone have any good mortgage broker recommendations that will help find a way to not pay PMI?

Remeber the time when "Things To Do in Chicago This Weekend" included something other than a bunch of links to remote this and online that, and were actually REAL things that people did IRL?

Has anyone successfully sold your gently used clothing for cash on the spot anywhere in Chicagoland? If yes, where? Have a lot of nice stuff that I’m bored of but Poshmark takes too much effort for me and I find consignment stores usually take months until anything sells and then getting your money is a pain. So looking for instant cash. TIA

Any hidden gem dive bars (honkytonks) to see bluegrass/country acts?

Does anyone own a scooter for getting around the city? Looking for suggestions for a scooter to get to and from places like the office or the gym that are easy to fold up / travel with.

Did all of you Chicago 🐠 looking to get drinks tonight disappear?

Moving to Chicago next month. Any recommendations for neighborhoods for mid 20s F? Currently living in Park Slope Brooklyn and looking for a similar vibe.