Tam Brahm female fish, the arranged marriage scene is brutal. Most guys don’t want consulting, occasional drinking and chicken and late night and long work hours. And fam wants tam brahm only. 😔

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I have no idea what most of this means.

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That’s okay - it’s issue focused on a small Indian community.

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Don’t understand any of this culture but am so fascinated. 2 hour google detour....but love learning about different cultures!

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Glad I helped :)

Ahhh I feel ya. I am a married tam Brahm girl - What helps is to find like minded fellow TB boys (if this is non-negotiable) and having the courage to say no to the ones that aren’t ok with some of the qualifiers you’ve mentioned. Trust me they exist. I am married to a Telugu brahm who didn’t care about any of those

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I did OP! Stay strong - don’t lose hope and most importantly don’t get frustrated. That’s when you make decisions that you will regret. Stand your ground!

Do you really looking for Tamilian and Brahmin?? What matters is the compatibility

Happy to chat OP

Cool DM me!

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