Tired of working with older white men. I'm tired of the sneaky put-downs, the patronizing, the gatekeeping, and the generally entitled attitude that they have. This week could have been so much better if I worked with people who were actually willing to work with me.

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I understand. Seem like they go out of their way to make you feel un-welcomed sometimes. Very unnecessary. Maybe going to HR to make a compliant?

I feel this in my soul. Every job I have been at has been like this. It gets really exhausting.

Sadly, I feel you. Unfortunately there's nothing much we can do to change the way the see us as less than them. Any chance you could reach out to your HR regarding this?

It's incredibly frustrating to deal with, and I don't really know how to handle it tbh :/

It really drains you physically, emotionally, and mentally. This job gives a lot but receives little to no appreciation whatsoever. How did I end up here...

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Hey Fishes,

Need likes & emojis
Can I get some
N here's some humour
What's the logic behind likes & reactions after 12 emojis and then we getto send a DM?
Boss: just do what is informed to be done, Don try to be over smart
Employee : I think this is the smartest way to jus DM Directly instead of getting likes & other reactions. Do you think that's really imp.?
Boss : in his mind this guy is too much chaalo...
Let me shift him to other team or.let me see if.i.can kick him out..
Lol!!

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Good places for buying business casual clothing (men's)?

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FYI - His manager is the division head and Managing Director.
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- I am 18 YOE with a technically strong background
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Any Salesforce shark here working in Tech Mahindra !!
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