To whom are you loyal?

Gone are the days of company loyalty, and it seems to be every man for himself. I remember a time when you started working for an employer, there was an exchange of respect, civility, and a work ethic.

Did all of this change with overemployment? Lack of loyalty and respect?

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You just have to be loyal to yourself now. I can see it is a two way street, but a lot of people get nothing in return for their so called loyalty to a company, even being out of a job when the company is actually doing well. I think it all went south when workers weren’t getting paid as well, the money stayed at the top of the chain.

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Agreed! I believe what is even more frustrating is "leadership" being able to find money "in the budget" to promote each other, but not paying the front line for the hard work they do to make "leadership" look good.

When the front line realizes that, the loyalty begins to disappear.

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