Tried to go to the office holiday happy hour but after the crowded office day, I only lasted 20 min once it started... now feeling disappointed in myself. Anyone else hate the holiday season at work?

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Yeah. Those big group “fun” activities do nothing for me. I avoid them and focus on building meaningful relationships with people and try to generally be known for good work and enthusiasm. Those parties suck.

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Crowds are so loud and there’s no genuine relationships there! I feel disappointed afterwards too.

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