What marriage/relationship advice would you give yourself when you were younger/your son?

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Get married young and have kids in your twenties. You’ll have fun with them, probably relate to them better, and you’ll learn how to prioritize and think about more than just yourself - which will help you in many other areas.

Being an empty nester in your mid-to-late 40s is fantastic.

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Bain, I have plenty of friends your age with young families and they’re busy running kids around while I’m playing golf, going on trips and pretty much doing as I please. It’s great. I have plenty of disposable income and lots of free time to use it. Those same friends are envious that they won’t reach that same state for another 10-12 years.

To each his/her own, but I certainly don’t feel like I missed out on anything. I had a ton of fun in college, but my wife and I both decided early on that we were ready to get on with life. Moving into adulthood made us happier than delaying our adolescence.

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Say. No. Enjoy. Your. 20s.

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Don't compromise. I settled for a good relationship that became okay and then bad. My problem was the same that many have. Once I invested 3, 4, 5 ...years in the relationship I had to go through with marriage when in my heart i knew I should back out.

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If you want to attract a good partner and person, you have to be a good partner and person. Making money and having cut abs ain’t enough.

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Don't get married to the first person that you F$*k.
Also, get married early and have a child before 30.. You won't have financial stability, a paid for car or a big bank balance. But you will have lots of energy and time for your family

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