What should I do?
I left a big 4 (company 1) joined another company after (company 2). Then once I joined company 2, another offer came in which was really great from company 3; took it and company 2 was happy for me. I still have really good relationships at company 1 however the partner I worked for is spreading rumours and lying to people saying I got fired from company 2. Best part is that I called him before I joined company 3… what can i do in this situation?

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Partner from company 1 sounds like a loser who has no life if he’s still talking about you after 2 other companies you’ve joined

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Agreed x 10000

There are 2 approaches here -

1. Chat up with Partner and ask for a clarification

2. Why do you care what the Partner is saying? I got RIF’d from a Big 4 but now in a much better place. Who cares what one person says? People who matter to you will know the truth. You don’t need a 1000 people in your community, you need 10 solid folks. Focus on those 10.

My 2 cents

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Makes sense… it’s just kind of sad to see how someone can make up lies for no reason and all the people they tell, are coming back to me saying “this is what they are saying… just letting you know because it’s a lie.”

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Why not drop this guy a line and calmly ask him what’s driving his behavior? He’s an adult who can (presumably) have an honest conversation.

If he can’t act like a professional, disassociate completely and keep the good folks in your network informed. The rest can believe whatever helps their petty little hearts sleep at night.

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Thanks that’s very true

I’m very immature but I’d start spreading unfounded rumours about this partner 🙃

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Lol

“Hi Trip,

Hope all is well with you, Carol and little Trip Junior.

The weirdest thing happened recently. I was talking with my boss and she said that she heard from someone that you said I was fired from my last job. I’m sure that’s not true since you know I left there on my own. Any clue where that came from?

Ps: I was just watching Caddyshack and thought of you. Remember when you used to recite your favorite lines from that movie over and over, and also that story on how you did a jaegerbomb with Lefty at the Masters back in the day? Hilarious. Well, I’m sure some people thought so anyway.

All the best,

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Haha nice good way of approaching it

Honestly, that partner sounds like a total loser who is not worth your time. Sounds like you made the right decision leaving

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Yeah appreciate it… big loser.

Immediately put in an application for #4

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Did you make all the switch in short time frame?

Respect 🤝

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Damn, I'm in this exact situation! Currently at company 2 waiting for company 3 visa transfer. How did you break it to company 2? I'm worried about burning a bridge.

I just told them .. it wasn’t expected and company 3 reached out with an offer I couldn’t refuse. Also company 3 is a company even company 2 knew that I should go to; because of growth potential and market presence.. they also knew that they can potentially benefit from me going there .. they tried keeping me but it just didn’t make sense to stay

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