Where/How did you meet your SO?

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I woke up hungover at a buddies place I crashed at (instead of driving). I NEEDED, and I cannot stress this enough, required some water that next morning. So I drag myself to the kitchen. Typical man cave. Zero in the fridge, literally nothing. Turn to the sink. Now two things are important here. 1, I need some fluids. 2, I always left any place I crashed at better than I found it. What do I see? There is approximately 16 weeks of dishes pilled so high you can barely turn the water on.

So I did what no one else would ever do. I started washing these two guys’s dishes. And all of a sudden I hear, “Good morning. What are you doing?” Washing dishes cause this is just nasty and I’m thirsty. I didn’t even look back.

And that was that. That’s how I met my future wife. Hungover, stinky, and washing two other men’s dishes (one of which she was dating).

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Accenture 14, the fast forward above was me at 30, chasing a “half my age plus 7” young lady. Life was exciting but she and I never saw eye to eye on on parenting. Look for you, but make sure you align on things. And never hide that you are a Dad, sell that ish from the beginning! Save yourself the hassle.

The rest of you still watching my soap:
While I was living in fantasy land, my now wife, watched my stupidity and remained my friend and confidant. When I lost my job and “22” dipped out, my world came crashing down. When I came back around, now you see why she was occupied...

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We met on a zoom social when covid first started, then she DMd me and I took a chance and said yes to a date

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Through my roommate at a bar. He asked if I wanted to make out and I did one of those fake “haha yeah” when you don’t hear what the other person said. Next thing you know his mouth was on mine 😂 (btw, who the heck asks someone if they wanna make out????)

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