Would you let your team follow you on social media? A few in my group have tried to friend me, I've left them hanging. Not sure how to navigate that but pretty sure I'd rather keep my personal life private.

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Only on LinkedIn anything else is a no.

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I don't. Like you, I've just ignored the few who have tried to add me. It's nothing against them; I just don't want to mix my personal and professional lives any more than is absolutely necessary.

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Never... I keep business connections on LI and social connections on FB or elsewhere. Co-workers who became personal friends have been added to FB AFTER we no longer worked for the same employer.

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On LinkedIn absolutely. For other social media Not my direct team. Others at my company I’m friends with, sure.

Only on LinkedIn. We exchange reels (office jokes and such) from other platforms via texts but not friends with them. I like to keep my personal life private too!

LinkedIn, yes. Facebook, maybe. IG, definitely not unless they're people I know and spend time with non-professionally outside of work.

Facebook is maybe because my Facebook is more of a "casual public" profile for me. There's still a professional tone to my account on there, just not at the level of LinkedIn. However, my IG is wholly for my private life and not with any professional tone.

That is an interesting take. I use social media as a whole way less then I used to, but what profiles I do have out there, are used differently on different platforms. IG is a lot of friends and family, Facebook is almost nothing right now, just keep up with local groups and events. But everything is set on private still!

Only on Linked in. I have my other socials pretty private but every now and then someone will request to follow me or be my friend and I just leave it pending. I don't want any of my colleagues following my socials lol.

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