Anyone else have misophonia and struggle when coworkers eat at their desks?

Moving to London from India and have no experience living in cold weathers. What immediate clothing would you suggest for layering and relevant brands plz?

Anyone get nervous before speaking in front of a group of people? I feel super embarrassed because sometimes when I’m super nervous my voice cracks and I’m worried other people can tell. Any strategies to fight this?

What are some creative ways that I can reward my team? They've been working really hard lately and I want to show my appreciation

How do you deal with a partner who critiques every little thing and is just a rude person. I am looking for suggestions beyond leaving the firm as I just lateraled, so that is not an option for me. Today, he messaged me on Jabber and said “next time, don’t tell the client we are scheduling a ‘call.’ Say ‘telephone call.’ It is important to be precise.” Besides stupid critiques, he is demeaning and demands I prioritize his work. (See below)

Starting at an MBB virtually next week - what’s an appropriate dress code for trainings,etc.?

OP is being unreasonable, and OPs counsel is nice, but struggles with basic procedural skills. (For example, forwarded me emails from his client that admit to evidence spoliation). On a scale of 1 - 10, how dick-ish of me is it to wait until end of the day to serve a mountain of Interrogatories, Request for Production, Request for Admissions, and a Deposition Notice. I may or may not be purposely exploiting OC’s inability to keep up and follow the rules of discovery.

I quit drinking recently and I have no idea how I’ll tolerate work social events ever again. Kind of worried I’ll just not participate in them and it’ll hamper my career.

I’m a new analyst at a PE firm, and my associate keeps blaming me for things she does wrong. Like she will tell me I made the wrong change, even though she is the one who changed it. Or in calls with other people, she won’t take responsibility for things that she told me to do that the other person calls out as wrong. How can I handle this situation without making her mad but also not letting her step all over me?

Is it appropriate to wear business casual clothing to an interview for a fin-tech firm?

Older, successsful FAs: How do you suggest a younger female in the business approach you and talk about joining your team? What areas do advisors like you need help with?

Been on a project for 2 weeks and thinking it’s not for me. The manager is kind of rude when I ask for help/direction, but he always says to ask if things are uncertain. He always has this condescending attitude and just keeps telling me that he expects more of someone at my level, C. I just keep feeling anxious that I’m not meeting expectations and feel reluctant to ask for help. Anyone in the same boat?

2 wks into a new job - boss is already inundating me with work, gives direction then questions me on why I followed it 🤯 looks visibility disgusted when plans don’t look like what they expected (but didn’t set any expectations) and then starts asking Qs about my exp which sends me into a panic. I’m anxious all day. They say all the right things on 1:1s and that they want my feedback so we can work well together but I don’t believe it. Can I come back from this? I love the company

What it be a bad idea to shade your previous employers in a TikTok career account?

What are effective ways to ensure your team feels content within the workplace? There is a rise of many people feeling undervalued and not cared for as an employee. I would like to change that. No matter the job, no one should feel less than.

If you’ve gotten an offer from one shop while you’re in the 2nd round of interviews with a few others, is there a ‘best practices’ for being diplomatic whilst using it to your advantage?

How to deal with a junior designer that can only be negative on their critique? Is it a mindset or is it something that can be taught? Ideally designers should be able to help improve others’ ideas instead of just shitting on them and saying they don’t work or are wrong. As a lead designer, what can I do to help?

Any particularly effective strategies to manage client asks to treat everything as a zero markup pass through?

Aww, bummed to see this is a dead bowl. Anyone still around?? Getting ready for our first internal off-site and I haven't seen the rest of my team in person for almost 3 years now. I'm more nervous about the new folks that I have only met via Teams, including my 1st-ever direct report. I feel fine in my own skin most of the time but when I am in new and unfamiliar situations I get crazy body dysmorphia and super concious of my physicality. Any ideas on what I can I do to temper those feelings?

How do you feel while interviewing? I always feel self conscious and think of ways to make myself be more masculine by altering the way I talk and use body language.

Hi Guys, I am on a Systems Engineer position at TCS working in middleware technologies in integration area with 3 YOE, having GCP certification . Now I want to switch. Can someone suggest me for which job position I should apply in Capgemini?

I’ve really resisted going the big tech route because I really enjoy the speed and responsibilities of startup life, but I’m in my mid thirties and can’t seem to justify leaving that much money on the table by not doing FAANG or a large tech company (not to say I’d be a shoo in for a job). Such a huge difference between $200k with promise of an exit vs $400k in almost guaranteed comp. Does anyone else not want to do big tech? What’s your reason(s)?

Can someone please help me with the growth opportunities of Instructional designers in India, US, and Canada?

Anyone have a favorite hotel in Charleston or Hilton Head?

Can anyone help me with a referral at ZS??

Hi Team,
Is it good to join Ecolab digital center Bangalore or infosys.

Please let me know asap as it's very urgent

The broiler on my 20 year old viking range went out and the machine is making funny noises. Any advice for most cost effective way to handle this? I’d rather not buy a new $6K oven

Wassup guys! I’m a 19yr old college student that works in corporate Walmart, I’m one of the people in charge of the whole remodeling projects in the country, but I’m really interested in tech as I’m studying for computer information systems. I make good enough money and get a lot of perks but am trying to branch out. Any tips or referrals for any entry level positions?

is it just me or i can’t find anything in my budget and criteria to live in chicago 🥺

Has anyone built a barn home? Would you be interested in talking about the process, costs, and considerations? We're looking at that and would be interested to better understand how to get going.

I’m new to freelancing, at a senior level and in NYC. Can anyone give me a range of what day rate would be appropriate to charge? Thank you!!

Are you a .net developer?
If yes , what's your current CTC and YOE?
Just wanted to know the current trend

It makes no sense to me why front-load washers aren't constructed with more anchor points holding the wash basin on to the back, they always fail after a few years

Any online retailers selling dumbbells? Need to lift weights in between all these meetings...

If you make one cool print ad, would you add it to your book as its own project? Or is that weird?

I am currently working as an entry level claims adjuster. I am just about done with onboarding and I am interested in growing and earning more. I’m relatively young (30) and I want to make a good career for myself. My current salary is 50K and I am curious what growth is available financially. I am interested in fire and theft and SIU, but these are not the only roles I want to try. Does anyone have any idea the salary ranges available as I go further into different roles? (URBI,ARBI,F&T) etc?

Can anyone recommend a therapist who uses a secular Buddhist, contemplative psychology or jungian psychology framework? I want to start seeing one but it’s hard to know where to go.

has anyone been placed on a PIP after signing an ADA? i’m only 2 weeks into my accommodation...

Next week I'll have been unemployed for 4 months. I'm at a serious low point. Any tips on keeping positive?

Has anyone defined themselves by their passion for this industry so much so, that if they thought about doing something else they’d have no idea who they are anymore?

Does that even make sense?

Job technically allows for WFH - take about one a month because of debillitating anxiety and depression flare ups. I actually work too - I just can’t be around people.

I've struggled with taking meds. I never understood the concept of "take your meds even if you feel good."

Today, I'm 28 days consistent taking my meds and I feel so. damn. great.

Keep going friends

Just found out depression and anxiety can be considered disability and protected under the Americans with Disabilities Act. 🤯

Have any of you had to go through multiple different therapists and found one that you enjoy meeting with consistently? Hating myself rn but don’t want to talk to the one therapist i have met with 3x and not sure if the search is even that worth it ultimately. For those that couldn’t find a good match for a therapist - are there other methods of therapy you’ve tried or would recommend?

I’ve gotten to the final stage in interview process at 5 places now to be told no. First and second interviews at a bunch of other places too. Starting to really feel drained. So much work for nothing

My parents got incredibly angry and threatened to “end up in the hospital” and “disown” me after I told them I want to marry my partner, who comes from a different religion. My partner is amazing and I can’t imagine loving anyone this deeply, and feeling so safe with them. But I also love my parents and they’ve done so much for me. I don’t know how to cope with this.

How do you stop putting yourself down? I don’t mean to do it and it just comes out of my mouth and then I feel SO awk after.

Is feeling suicidal a reason to leave work early/call out sick in the morning?

My heads messed up. Feeling anxious about a situation with my ex (A) but ex (B) shows up after I’ve been distant with A ... I hooked up with B ... I hate that I feel neglected... (continue )

How do you deal with a boss that wants you to quit and is becoming increasingly more abusive. But you haven’t found a job yet and need this job financially.

I’ve been fired twice (2017 and 2021) and I always have the lingering feeling that it can happen again so I jump jobs before anyone gets the wiser. It’s not healthy and can impact me professionally. Any one else every experience this ?

At my health annual, a simple question “how are you feeling?” turned on Niagara Falls. No one ever asks how I’m doing w the intent to sincerely listen.
Prozac was prescribed. Therapist booked. 🤞🏻