As an introvert , what do you do during New Year’s Eve? In my case, I either spend it with my family or just treat it like any other holiday night.

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Like any other day for me!
Buy my favorite foods and snacks. Curl up on the couch either alone or with a close friend or two. Just protect me from all those crazy hordes of prople!! 🎉

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I stopped going out to celebrate New Years Eve when I was in my mid to late 20s. Nice dinner at home or small gathering with friends is my MO.

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Spending it with family. With the rigor and hours of this job, I see my family maybe once a month, if that, which is important to me personally.

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Turn off the phone and go to bed early. Great chance to catch up on sleep and start the new year well rested.

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We always stay home, grill steaks, crack a bottle of wine and watch a movie. Definitely not going out.

I wonder how much of this introvert bowl is also just old 😂 I used to go out and stopped when I turned 30. Too much pressure to have fun. Now we just watch a movie after the kids go to bed and sometimes make it to midnight.

36 here and resonate with M1

It’s my least favorite holiday and yet my husband loves it. I usually book vacations or we go out to a fancy dress up show. I do not like sit down parties.

I feel like some holiday nights are not exactly an option for most people. My mom would get offended if I skip family dinner to be with friends on Christmas or New Year xD

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