Finally admitting I’m bad at finances.

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Second vote for YNAB, but with the caveat it is just a tool. You also need a plan. For that I would highly recommend the Financial Order of Operations from The Money Guys.

If you feel like you need something more disciplined/harsh, then Dave Ramsay’s baby steps are you.

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