For people in relationships: do you ever think about an old fling that didn’t turn into anything? I’m in a good relationship, but I sometimes wonder how things would’ve been with the old fling that ultimately never turned into anything serious

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In a sexual way, yes. In a longing to be in relationship with them instead? No.

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This 👆🏻
We broke up for a reason but you can still fantasize

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I’ve been with my SO happily for 3 years. I do occasionally reminisce on my “one night stands” - but mostly only like a “haha that was interesting - wonder what they’re doing now”, never really like a “longing” feeling.

I dated a guy from 17-20 years old and I occasionally think about what life would be like if we ended up together. We broke up because we went to diff colleges and grew apart. I’m very happily married now tho.

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