Guys my AM fixed and girl is bit healthy compare to me and little bit slow to do things, maybe because of fat. Should I go for marriage?

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Bhai no one can answer this for you. Only you can decide for yourself. If you don't find her physically attractive enough for marriage then there's nothing's wrong in it. Many girls won't find you attractive as well. Take it this way.
First decide what are the things you can compromise on and what are the non-negotiables for marriage. That will help.

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No bro it's not alright.

If you don't find her attractive before marriage, it won't work.

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Unless she realize on this and works on it then continue, otherwise don't. Not worth it. Sex is 1 thing that women can bring on table for marriage. Not worth it if you don't find her attractive.

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The question is can she again become attractive?
Will she put in the work requirered?
If not..then skip.

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AM is fix right ?

don't think much..
you can ask her, try to reduce her weight... talk with her.. with efforts weight can be reduced

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People will become fat after marriage that doesn't mean that you should marry fat people. Do you buy any item if has scratches on it as it anyway get scratches in future?

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I think you should also think about her quality as a person. Fat person can become thin easily but a nasty person will remain nasty forever. I am sure she must be conscious of her weight as well so tread carefully. Finding the right person to marry is more important.

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Raat mein mehnat karna...sab fat loss ho jayega. 😉

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Don't go with her bro. She must be lazy also.

Better to look for someone who you find attractive. Unless you are into that type. Then it's your choice.

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I would say no. If she is healthy at this stage, most probably would get healthier over time and you seem to be already concerned

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Go ahead, initiate talks about fitness positively. Motivate her to do it for you! She will do it if you set yourself as a prize.

-A male going in AM setup, lost 17kg in 2.3 months

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