Hi, I’m new to the group.. my husband was just recently diagnosed with schizophrenia. but we’re currently apart (long-distance) due to jobs, until next year. I know he’s having a hard time grasping this new reality & He has stated to me “that I deserve better & that he doesn’t want to drag me through this.” I want to respect his wishes & not force anything but I know he needs a friend more than ever. Does anyone have any advice/point me in the right direction for support ? TIA

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Can’t you talk with your boss and move with your hudband. If he “needs a friend more than ever” aren’t you the best person in the eorld to be that friend?

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Agreed, Spoke to my supervisor today & I’m in the process of getting the transfer ... just was seeking what I can do in the interim in between packing up

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I don't have schizophrenia, but I struggle with bipolar disorder. My episodes are tough on my wife, but she is very supportive. Her researching my condition showed me that she cared and that we're in this together.

It's that togetherness that means the most. In his eyes, things are looking hopeless for your husband. You have to tell him its not. Thousands of people go through what he is. He can take advantage of support groups. You can as well. Hearing other people go through the same challenges will strength both of you.

The distance is going to be your biggest hurdle. When he gets on the "you deserve better" depression train, remind him of all the reasons you love him and that you will be there for him no matter what.

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Thank you so much for your detailed response, means so much

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I recommend looking into your local NAMI chapter. I did a training/support group course for 12 wks for family members of those with severe mental illness. It was extremely helpful for me and now I volunteer/ advocate for them. They have great resources that specifically cater to people with schizophrenia and their families. Wish you the best.

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Thank you, I will def. look into it

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