How is dating like in San Francisco? Is it harder to date in your 30s? Almost 30F here

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Dating in SF has taken the soul out of me.

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What is your age & gender? Thoughts on how it is for a low to mid-30’s woman?

Dating tends to get harder as you age out of your looks.

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Just want until we come in for Dreamforce.

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Or the GDC bros!

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Dating in SF isn’t some predetermined experience that you just take part in. Make it your own experience. Have standards and boundaries, and maintain them.

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From what I’ve heard it’s a sausage fest so it might be easier for you as a woman. Can’t say anything about quality of guys.

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It might also be tough as a woman due to the fact that a lot of men prefer sausage🤣

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