I find it hard to keep it together at school. I was in an abusive relationship that finally lead me to emptiness and emotional trying times. I keep things bottled up about school and home.

My wife is taking forever to get ready for an event despite us agreeing that we would leave 30 minutes ago. Is punctuality dead?

26 and being pressured to get married and date by ethnic extend family and family. I’m out off by marriage because all I saw growing up was women talking about sacrifices. It sounds miserable. I also don’t want to have kids for that reason and I’m tired of being bloody asked. Tired of being offered prayers or whatever. It seems like hell

I hate that I still want to hear from him. I just have no idea what I want him to say or what I want to say. I feel like if I get anywhere near him he’ll be able to sense my pain. Are we sure the no contact rule is only 21 days? I feel like I need 21 months.

An ex, who is still a friend, is having his son (previous relationship before he came out) come to the US to live here permanently. His son doesn’t speak English well, and I want to send him a welcome gift, as he really has no friends here. Any thoughts?

Looking for suggestions around cedar park for 4yo bday party venue. Reasonable fun for large group of similar aged kids?

Anyone married but still have feelings about your ex? Like you love your SO but still have lingering feelings?

Single mom here looking to set up a trust for my 3yo son. How do I go about doing it? Thanks in advance

Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

What duration of break is perfect for a couple to figure out if they want to break up or move forward with the relationship? Me and my boyfriend, we fight a lot over petty stuffs and have disagreements over every little things. So, we decided to take a break to decide what’s best for us.

Hi guys! My company is sending me to Derry, Ireland for a week for a conference, I'm thinking of extending my stay by 2 weeks to travel around and work remotely. Do you guys have any recommendations? My mom might join me since she wants to see the UK/Ireland, but after that I'll have another week to myself to do whatever. I would love suggestions!

Spoke with a friend for like 8 straight hours and I’m slowly beginning to think my friend is a narcissist

My partner tells me to share my anxieties. I do share some, but I tell him I cannot possibly share all. There are many, and I don’t want to subject him to the inner turmoil I suffer daily.

My husband never reads and wants to start reading as a new hobby. What is a good book that you would recommend for a 40 year old man? Not self help books, but maybe something with action. I think he would like the Bourne series, but he saw all the movies so he's not interested, but something similar.

I love watching my 3-year-old's engineering hacks... he wanted to pet the cat so he built a fort out of pillows and waited, now the cat's purring on his lap and they're both asleep

I have a connection who until recently included the following in her “about” section:
Single mom of 2 teenaged sons.
Tattooed CPA.

I feel like the world has gone crazy.

My GF has trouble standing up for herself. She's on client travel and one of her co-workers made her really upset (very uncalled for and should have never happened). She called me crying. After consoling her I told her that she needs to go to her manager and possibly HR (yes it's to that level).
She told me she can't and she's not that person (she thinks she'll get the other person fired). She knows that she should and hates that she doesn't stand up for herself. What can I do to help?

What do people do when you feel really lonely? Just broke up when I thought things were going well, and moved to a new city where I don’t know anyone. Feels lonely and overwhelming. Scoping out therapists too but asking for any stop gap measures I can implement for a month or two.

Any ladies 26 or under in here want to chat? Bored of my family on Easter

Torn between flipping to fulltime for a position that I don’t love but accidentally became really good at it, or staying freelance & growing elsewhere. Also want to buy a house soon, please advise!

The best time to start a job hunt is right before Cannes and July 4th, apparently.

At least half of my account got promoted yesterday. Should I still worry about layoffs?

Ad Ops people: how do client teams send over their creatives and or tracking requests? Email? Excel form? One long sentence with no punctuation, shouty phone call? Does any other team take ownership?

How much should be the salary for BPO2 grade with 8 years of experience ?

Hi,

Recently I joined TCS and they have revoked my ID card access to Quadra II , Pune and I want Sahyadri. What should I do? I already regret my decision to join this company.

Anyone free to case during the day thurs / fri, or this weekend?

In your opinion, which MBB had the hardest interview?

Is it unprofessional to do an online interview from your phone?

Which Salesforce partners dont work with offshore? It’d be so much easier not having to deal with time zone differences

Appearing for service cloud exam soon. Any question dumps that you would suggest ?

How’s dating in SF vs NYC for women?

What are the best iOS platforms to trade digital currencies? I am US based and am a bit more sophisticated in terms of Order Entry, etc. Coinbase seems pretty basic, since they only allow you to be a price taker and not set orders to buy/sell at specified prices

Hi guys,

Can anyone refer me for any open Positions in Bhubaneswar in Data Science/Data Visualization/Business Analysis/Machine Learning/Computer Vision Tech Stack??

I have 4.8 YoE (3.5 Relevant)

I have 28 days of Notice Period left. I have an offer in Blore, but there are some contingencies at home, hence I am choosing Bhubaneswar. Kindly help.

Thanks in Advance. 🙏

If the partner and client sponsor on your job was a smurf, who would they be?!?

Looking for new job after 1 year as AE. Surprisingly a lot of places ask for a portfolio. What should I put in it? Should it be a deck or a webpage? Should I put in works I didn't manage on my own?

I'm a VP in healthcare, working mostly on oncology. I want to work on women's health, health tech, and/or mental/behavior health. Of course my agency is like "great, go get some new biz." Obv, it's not that easy. In the meantime, besides reading about it, what's a good way for me to get into those spaces, meet people, etc?

Real question no Sarcasm pls...
How do you stay focused when you have so many things to do? I write list but can get distracted by the sound of the AC! help and practical tips please 😊

So glad this is a thing. The McKinsey ENFP email list rocks so hopefully our non-McKinsey ENFP friends will benefit from this type of “support group” as well

Hi ENFPs!

What do you do when you’re in a new city by yourself (for work)? Do you explore activities / restaurants / etc. solo? What’s your approach, especially given the short timeline for a study?

ENFP plus Pioneer-Integrator here. Anyone else? For the non-Deloitte people, Biz Chemistry is like our own little Meyers Briggs

I've been given too much feedback (constructive) and now I can't help but feel I'm shit at my job. I'm analyst level and starting to feel really tired overwhelmed and disheartened. how do u cope

Interested to see this group... is ENFP a particularly difficult personality for consulting? Or is there a lot of us? Intrigued as to what has triggered this bowl creation

Hi everyone!! This is exactly the group I've been looking for. I'll be starting my new (and first) consulting job at ZS Associates at the end of the month and I'm so nervous that I'll crash and burn. I'm very proud to be an ENFP, but the flaws that come along with it (distraction, procrastination, disorganization) seem like a recipe for disaster. I'm not sure if I should spend this next month trying to change my habits or if I should just embrace it. Anyway, what advice do you all have?

Extraversion. Intuition. Feeling. Perceiving <3

ENFPs! Halloween is just SEVEN WEEKS AWAY... what are you going to be??? 🕷👻🎃

How many here also have ADHD?

Hi ENFPs! Would love to hear your tips on how you handle this. I get great feedback on people based things (client, team coaching), but continually pushed on drilling deeper (cont.)