Let’s also celebrate the moms who have changed our lives and are now resting in peace. What traits have you inherited from your mom?

At first I wondered why everyone in my office was married to/dating each other. But now it makes sense, they're the only people you ever freaking see 😐

I used to be so devoted to my academics that I kind of forgot to make some close friends. How do you reignite your social life after college?

For those of you who do external IT Audit (SOC 2, NIST, HIPAA, ISO, etc.), how do you describe what you do to friends or outsiders that are not in the same type of work?

I find it hard to keep it together at school. I was in an abusive relationship that finally lead me to emptiness and emotional trying times. I keep things bottled up about school and home.

I've been so lucky to have tons of friends giving me hand me downs but it seems like it might be too much if I accept everything. What are the absolute necessaries that I should accept multiples of and what can I pass on?

My s/o and I were in a very long relationship that just ended. We have so much financial ties that I feel we need a separation agreement to resolve these issues. Has anyone heard of a non married separation agreement?

Coming from a family of immigrants and being one yourself, does anyone ever feel a sense of guilt with your success/salary versus your family members? If so, how have you dealt with this? Any suggestions on how to deal with it internally and emotionally?

Partners with kids and a working spouse, how do you manage? Is it realistic for both people in the relationship to work full time long term? How do you keep marriage going and career progressing?

I have a student who only comes to school two days a week and then only for 1 hour. He tells me I have to pass him so it doesn't matter. This is very frustrating. I knew this student hates school and often states he is stupid. I just do my best to encourage him. Build confidence. Any ideas to encourage him more? By the way, taking to his parent does nothing.

Hi ladies! I’m in my early 30s and haven’t never been in a successful relationship but would really love to have kids. I’m considering doing it on my own but terrified by a few things- effort, work, Indian community...

Has anyone done something similar?

35F divorced with a kid. I think I will never get remarried or in a serious relationship again. Lots of men don't like dating women with children. At my age either the guys are past their prime, divorced/ing and have to provide half their income to their first wife. Many with kids live on the same street as their ex wives so they can be close to their child. I'm not comfortable dating guys like that. On the flip side there are the ones that were never married, which by this age cont

How to politely tell my partner stop spending too much time on playing video games? It was my false at first. I introduced Zelda breathe of the wild to her and now, she is hooked. She even played game when we had the movie night. I chose the her movie style but she let me to watch it alone and silently turned on the game, and played it while pretended to watch the movie with me. That’s not fun at all. What should I do? Any advice please?

Gift ideas for GF dad? We have been dating a year and a half, I get along with him super well. He is dealing with some medical complications so isn’t to active at the moment but loves cooking and golfing. He is one of those guys who already has everything he needs, and they are super wealthy so I feel bad getting him any clothing or accessories knowing it wouldn’t be as nice as the things he wears, although I know he doesn’t expect anything and would genuinely appreciate anything I got him

Just moved, looking to make new friends. 29 F 😊

Opinions on career clerkships? Especially with a two year old and wanting another child eventually.

I’m super happy I chose the right person for my forever partner.

Only you guys know. Shhhhhh

Does anyone know any ISB couples?
(Preferably those who have graduated in 2017 or before)
Please DM.

Need advice and help.

I have realized I grew up in a household where my dad did not treat my mom as an equal. He belittles her, is rude and convinced his way is the only way.

It is painful to say, but some of this shows up in me and in my relationship. I am starting to catch myself, and it to me seems to be more of a reaction than anythjng that is ever intentional.

Wondering if anyone has dealt with something similar, and any success in making changes besides therapy. Cont. in comments

Any mothers that are supervisors/managers? Thinking about starting a family & realized I don't know how this is going to work if I want to lean in to both my career & my ovaries. Esp. breastfeeding.

Does anyone have a Farer watch? Or does anyone have thoughts on them?

Ready to get back in the water. Who’s headed where?

How do you integrate mindfulness in your classroom? Have you ever experienced a negative reaction from parents or administration?

Best ways to sell used furniture?

I have been following Blockchain domain for 2 years now and have some Dev exposure with Ethereum/Hyperledger. I'm planning to switch, any one who can advise or refer me?

Is anyone else experiencing a new wave of covid anxiety due to the stress of figuring out the holidays? Got in an argument with a family member about safety guidelines and testing needing to happen and I’ve been feeling paralyzed by anxiety all day.

Hi fishes,

Please help me to fill form 11 in Accenture bgv process.

How to know my previous company comes under exempted or un exempted. ( Which is Capgemini)

Also how to know whether I am a member of pf scheme 1952 or whether I am member of Eps scheme 1995.

Please help. @ Accenture

What is the potential contract rate or full time salary for a python full stack developer in Toronto ?

FDD during an economic downturn?

Hey Folks!
Joined Optum as a fresher at the start of year but later they increased fresher salary by a good %age but mine didn't change...can you pls suggest how can I approach this issue with Manager.

TIA

Any recommendations on where to go to brush up on your Boolean search techniques? I’ve been recruiting for 10 years, but admit I don’t know the latest ways... for example X-ray

How is Ambit Asset Finance project from learning perspective? Asking since everything is internal. Internal frameworks and stuff. And since it's a huge project, people just get to work on chunks of it. How is it if you move out of FIS after working in this project?

Any openings on dynamics 365 ?

Any fish from LEK London willing to refer? Currently interviewing with other top consulting firms in London and keen to pursue LEK
YOE: 6
Appreciate the help!

Looking out for senior tech or mgmt roles in Oracle ERP fusion/EBS finance space?
Anyone knows abt openings in product based orgs in Hyd?

HIPAA special enrollment extension: does this apply to major medical, dental, vision, health FSA? Thanks!

Hi ENFPs!

What do you do when you’re in a new city by yourself (for work)? Do you explore activities / restaurants / etc. solo? What’s your approach, especially given the short timeline for a study?

I've been given too much feedback (constructive) and now I can't help but feel I'm shit at my job. I'm analyst level and starting to feel really tired overwhelmed and disheartened. how do u cope

ENFP plus Pioneer-Integrator here. Anyone else? For the non-Deloitte people, Biz Chemistry is like our own little Meyers Briggs

Interested to see this group... is ENFP a particularly difficult personality for consulting? Or is there a lot of us? Intrigued as to what has triggered this bowl creation

Hi everyone!! This is exactly the group I've been looking for. I'll be starting my new (and first) consulting job at ZS Associates at the end of the month and I'm so nervous that I'll crash and burn. I'm very proud to be an ENFP, but the flaws that come along with it (distraction, procrastination, disorganization) seem like a recipe for disaster. I'm not sure if I should spend this next month trying to change my habits or if I should just embrace it. Anyway, what advice do you all have?

So glad this is a thing. The McKinsey ENFP email list rocks so hopefully our non-McKinsey ENFP friends will benefit from this type of “support group” as well

Extraversion. Intuition. Feeling. Perceiving <3

Real question no Sarcasm pls...
How do you stay focused when you have so many things to do? I write list but can get distracted by the sound of the AC! help and practical tips please 😊

How many here also have ADHD?

Hi ENFPs! Would love to hear your tips on how you handle this. I get great feedback on people based things (client, team coaching), but continually pushed on drilling deeper (cont.)

ENFPs! Halloween is just SEVEN WEEKS AWAY... what are you going to be??? 🕷👻🎃