I’m a female first year associate based out of San Francisco, and I really want to get my nose re-pierced (it fell out a year ago and closed). Will it raise eyebrows if I start wearing one? For reference, I just wear a tiny, plain hoop on the left side - a lot of people didn’t even notice it when I had one before. Any thoughts?

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Depends on the firm I think. I am a first year and have my nose pierced (and two piercings on both ears) and don’t think I get any sideways looks. I had it when I interviewed. If you’re at an SF firm with a big tech practice (and the more laid back culture that comes with it) then IMO it’s probably fine.

Easy to say this with a job but folks told me to take it out when interviewing to “be safe” and I drew the boundary for myself that I wouldn’t want to work somewhere that a nose piercing was going to count against me.

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I personally wouldn’t, just to be safe. But it really depends on your office culture. The moment you see another associate with a nose ring, go for it. But as a first year I’m very risk averse and would try my best to blend in.

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A partner at my DC firm made our secretary remove her nose ring. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Do it.

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Agree with A2. I think being based in SF, this is fine. Even in NYC (where I am based) most firms wouldn’t have an issue here, but there are some curmudgeonly partners that would not approve thinking that they couldn’t put you in front of a client. Still, I don’t think it would materially affect your career at all.

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It will raise eyebrows, but I think it’s less of an issue for the time being because you’re a first year associate. More of an issue as you get more senior because you will be more client facing.

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Agree with A2. I think being based in SF, this is fine. Even in NYC (where I am based) most firms wouldn’t have an issue here, but there are some curmudgeonly partners that would not approve thinking that they couldn’t put you in front of a client. Still, I don’t think it would materially affect your career at all.

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Does your firm have a dress code policy? A lot of them are outdated, but they could still ask you to take it out because of their policy

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No dress code policy! (I’ve been wearing jeans and a cotton long sleeve tucked in with flats)

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I worked big law in San Francisco with many colorful characters of all gender. No one will care or notice as long as you’re reasonable about it (not in a court appearance and not for certain client meetings, etc.).

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I’m a male with ear piercings and the only comments people have made are positive. It’s possible some will judge behind your back but who cares.

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Thank you all, this is very helpful!

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