In a perfect world, managers wouldn't have favorites, but we all know that reality falls far short of that goal. My supervisor dislikes me no matter how hard I work. How can I win him over?

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just focus on your work, communicate effectively, build relationships with others in the office, and seek feedback. Good luck sorry you are dealing with that.

I don't think schmoozing up your manager would do you any good. Let your hard work do the talking I always say. Good luck!

If it is already hard as it is, don't bother with people who are hard to impress. Instead put your head down and do the work. He will surely notice

I personally would not like anyone bribing me or trying to warm up to me with gifts. You don't need to do that. But if you feel the need to do so be my guest

As long as they are not harassing you or making our job difficult then don't worry about it. Just keep doing your job.

I know it's human to want to be liked but who really cares if they like you or if you're the favorite

Sometimes being the favorite isn't all it's cracked up to be lol they get called upon to do the most work and have a lot of pressure on them to do well

You can find out what they like in their personal life like what they do in their spare time and see you two have any common interest

You are right! It is not true at all and I can attest to that based on my experience. Just keep up the good work. I don't think it really matters if he likes you or not.

Unfortunately, we are not living in a perfect world. Just focus on your own craft. You don't have to win him over, to be honest.

Did you ever talk to him? Did you ask him why he dislikes you? There seems to be some misunderstanding.

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