Indian gay here ...
My family is forcing me to marry but I am gay guy... although not into relationship right now.
I moved back home in covid to help out at home.
My parents are on my case every day for arranged marriage. What should I do?

How much of a nest egg would you expect a couple to collectively need in order to retire at 40 and live relatively comfortable (not lavish)?

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

Anyone else struggling with hormones / mood swings? I am almost 16 weeks and been having a real tough time lately, feeling really down and stressed about things. Sadly, causing tension between me and my partner as well as he cannot relate and seems preoccupied with business as usual. Trying to get out the funk and just telling myself it’s all the hormones.

We get it, ghosting happens. But has it ever happened to you repeatedly by the same person? Cashmere Agency in LA calls me relentlessly and then ghosts me just as relentlessly. Sales Force has done it two or three times as well. I can’t help but laugh and think about how it feels like getting a text from an ex—this didn’t work out before remember? It’s only been a month I’m still me.

I cringe when I'm at a friend's house and they answer their phone, find out it's a telemarketer, and just hang up on them. It's so rude. They know I have to cold-call people at my job and you'd think they would at least act like they were more respectful of the job.

Which company is good for new moms and WFH ?
Also which companies are having come back programs for new moms?

Haven't been sleeping well. It's 3am & I'm wide awake. I know it's anxiety. Any advise? Been worried about work, interviewing for jobs, and trying to focus on family. Things actually seem good, but...

I've got some friends who work remote jobs, and every day I grow more jealous of them during my one-hour commute.

Where are you in your own path to parenthood?

Any tips for organizing a bedroom, closet, dresser & bathroom? My teen has IADHD, and low executive functioning. Her room looks like a land mine. Clean clothes are mixed in with dirty, her desk is a disaster, she won’t let go of clothes she’s outgrown, drawers are open with clothes hanging out. A therapist said to close her door if we don’t want to see it but it’s more than that. She needs this important life skill & I don’t know how to help. Easier to organize w/o her but that’s not a solution.

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

How are people managing WFH with their kids? We have a 2 year old and 5 year old and my partner is also wfh. Small condo, no nanny. It’s freaking insane and my husband and I are fighting every day....

Moms with three kids and on a reduced schedule: What is your reduced schedule, and does it work for you? If not, what would be your ideal schedule? Just had my third and not sure how things will work... two was manageable, but three feels difficult right now

I know the general answer to this, but I want to know others response.
If by your 30’s you’re mostly established in life, why is it then harder to establish a long lasting relationship with someone ?

Looking for a husband 🤣

My kids were really upset with me when I told them that my job as an engineer did not mean that I drove trains for a living

Been questioning my friendship with a group of girls. Really close to them before (been hanging out since high school), but all they do is gossip, shop, and talk about superficial things, and I just started realizing how our interests are different too in the recent years. When is it time to drop the friendship if you feel like the odd one out?

What is on job security for senior engineer in HTC global services if you are new joiner and on bench since 2 months ?

Top 5 All-Time (regardless of resell value)?

Mine in no order:

Cement 3s
Cool Grey 11s
Neon Air Max 95s
Wave Runners
Sambas

Electrical engineers, what is the minimum salary I should consider after a few years of work?

BCG really disgusted for you to not provide any feedback on my interview after multiple emails.

What’s everyone doing in this heat??

I am defending an eviction for a client who has given possession of the property (as of Nov. 30). Plaintiff’s complaint has one claim – possession. They did request relief for attorney’s fees. NJT/Final Hearing commenced 10/27, was only 30 min and was therefore continued to 12/20. Plaintiff had counsel at that time but they are no longer represented.  I want to file something notifying Court that Plaintiff claim is now moot, making sure that judgment is not entered that hurts (cont'd)..

When does Accenture Capability pay Variable pay? If I join in May, when will I get the variable?

Any firms hiring for entry level rev cycle?

Hi All,

I am looking for a switch, a short introduction of mine

1 - I have completed my bachelor in textile currently pursuing Digital Marketing Analytics from NMIMS

2 - 5+ YOE in eCommerce Operation - (Amazon, Flipkart, Myntra, Nykaa, Paytm, Snapdeal, Tata Cliq, Ajioetc)

3 - Currently working with Audientes (Denmark) Company

4 - Achieved certification from Amazon and Flipkart

5 - Current and Preferred Location - Hyderabad

Please refer if you have any references Thanks

#hiring #jobhunt

Can someone please refer me to Walmart?
I have the job ids

That guy who posted the backpacks post got ratio’d in to oblivion and deleted his post.

Glad to see cool heads prevail

Lwd is 6th of Jan in IBM. Can we return our laptop via courier ?

How do you handle rude clinicians in the workplace? I always have an attending talking down to me.

Anyone in here have a hospital job for a unit secretary position? How much does it pay in California? Any help is greatly appreciated

Anyone joining JPMC on 26th Sep 2022 Bangalore? I am joining in AWM

Any tips on starting a side project to boost my chance of getting hired as a PMM?

Thoughts on AdEx ?

Do you set up any standards when you date with anybody? I’m currently dating with a Mexican man. He is older than me 10 years old (I thought 6 when we first met). His job is construction and made less than me. He is insecure about the money but I’m not really. But, the one bothering me is that he is illegal immigrant. Other than that, He is a cure, nice and independent guy. When dating, he split money/ or want to cover for me. He cares about people around. I am happy but not sure about LT.

Miami for Memorial Day long weekend, anyone? Or any recommendations for this weekend ?

I am frustrated as a Gay Woman who has given her all for 30+ years grinding to be the best. I have been in closet, out of closet, in-between and am tired of it. I want to be VALUED as a human being. I have gone from Rock Star to problem when people "found out". I have trained and promoted hundreds of people and been passed over for promotions because of not being a man. I have trained men with less experience, worse results only for them to move forward. Looking for my next WOW position.

Just moved to NYC - where do you all go for routine STD testing?

How do you shave/trim your beard without dropping the hair in the sink or on the floor? 🙏

Follow “FlyWithGarrett” on IG... you can thank me later.

I haven’t watched drag race before but I’m curious to learn more. Do you all have a favorite season or a season you recommend I start with?

Been seeing a guy for the past few months. Went to watch a movie on Netflix last night and saw that my ex is in a new series. Talk about mood killer. Now I can’t stop thinking about him 😞
He tends to pop in to my head at least once a month. How can I move past this?

Hi all! I’ve been dating my bf for about 4 months now and there are some things he says/is into that make me believe he is either Bisexual or has gender dysphoria. I could really use someone’s advice who has a similar experience like this. Is anyone willing to chat? I just want to be supportive and helpful.

I have accepted my sexuality and found peace with the long battle of wanting to be something not what I actually am. On one side I have a lot of pressure around me being gay and trying to get a PR and get out of India, on another side I have a lot financial issues. I’m trying so hard to focus on work and to meet the expected bar for my current role. But the office politics here is toxic and always putting me down. Just wondering whether things will get better ever.

I'm living in Arkansas and I am considering relocating. Does anyone have any suggestions on where to land?

Have someone ever found a date on Fishbowl ? Is Anyone up for a conversation? I'm straight boii.

Thinking about moving from Seattle to San Diego, but don’t have any friends down there. Any advice for how to meet queer friends?

I feel like gay men especially are constantly discriminated against in the workplace. I have been turned down for a promotion, yet again, in favor of a married heterosexual with kids. This has been the story of my career. Have superior experience - stellar reviews - people fighting to get on to my team because our team is great and I treat everyone well. This is so frustrating. Again and again, it’s a culture of parents helping other parents. No gays in upper level mgmt in our office.

Any single lipstick lesbians here, what to chat 😉?

I accept follow requests left & right without following back and without shame. What does this say about me besides that I and, let’s say Beyoncé, are generally very similar?

Would you date an ex army/marine who has actually been through wars (and killed people) and told you that they can hear ringing noises?

Any non-cishet male folks want to chat? Missing community right now!