My ex (a permanent resident of 20+ years) and her current husband took our teenage kids across state lines for a weekend without notice or my consent, against our shared parenting plan. Found out by chance via the kids. It’s not the first time she’s pulled this.

Do I make the court aware of this, knowing she may be found in contempt of court, pay fines, lose parental rights, or face jail time? There’s no love lost on either side.

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Context: she’s an alcoholic (picked up the kids from after school with an open bottle in the front seat), a spender (ran up tens of thousands of credit card debt), and serial cheater (three times I know of). And once she threatened to kill me.

While I want to think this is the worst she’ll do, she seems capable of doing anything given the circumstances and opportunity.

My point here is that she does what she wants—and by letting something like this slide, I give her approval.

Your thoughts are appreciated.

Also claims I owe her for school lunches—in spite of me paying her child support. Figure that one out… 🤷‍♂️

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