One of my friends who I met at my first real ad job died because of this disease on Friday. I’m sad for so many reasons.

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Oh no. I’m really sorry for you and their family. Please take care of yourself as you grieve.

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Thank you. I’m so sad for his family and friends. I’m also reminded of how real addiction is and just grateful I get to be sober. I wish he could have gotten this thing.

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I am so so sorry. I feel gratitude and grief all the time, at the same time, for a thousand different reasons, and losing people is the hardest.

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I feel you. I've lost 3 friends/colleagues to this.

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Sending hugs

Hugs OP. 💜💜

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So sorry for your loss. Sending 🤗. This disease is cunning, baffling and powerful. Work/life/program balance is so important in our industry.

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