Who here has married or been in a significant relationship with their office crush?

How’d it spark, who made the first move, what did HR think?

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I recently saw a CD marrying the main HR person. So she didn't have much to say.

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I married my Project Manager. Almost 10 years together and 2 kids

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I married mine, it was just an innocent office crush and now we’re happily married with kids. Crazy how things happen. It happened after we didn’t work together anymore, but if I had to give advice it would be that if it’s a power dynamic, I would just inform HR before word gets out. HR just wants to know everything, so as long as they’re aware from you first they tend to be ok. Just can’t be in the same department if one has more power, it gets messy

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Married a producer. We have 2 kids. Our lives run like clockwork. I can’t recommend marrying a producer enough! Best decision I ever made!

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My 2 cents: you can complain about your job to your partner and he/she will have the same background. We’re blaming our agencies together about 15 years this year 😜 Big deal!

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Whoa...major "Mad Men" vibes. Would put HR on DEFCON 1 today.

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Ehh it happens more than you’d think, though I think the move is for at least one of two to start looking for a new job if it starts to get serious, ideally before the whole agency is aware

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Go for it! I did over 30 years ago, still married, kids, and happy, Jobs come and go.

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I’ve been a witness to a lot of it but haven’t experienced it myself. Very entertaining nonetheless.

My husband and I are both copywriters. We have been together for 9 years, we worked in two countries in South America but never worked together.
We wanted to have that experience at some point and in 2022 it happened: An agency from the US wanted him and was looking for other creatives. When he was ready to sign the job offer, he told the recruiter and the CD that I was also a senior copy, and trying to be very polite, he handed them my portfolio just for them to check them out.
He was an ACD and I was in a senior Copy Role (he has more awards and 3 more experience years than I do, so I was okay, we don't compete against each other).
Everyone at that agency knew we were family and it was never a problem. However, a year later the agency did layoffs and I was impacted but he wasn't. That was the real problem because he had to take some days off to process this big change beyond the visa deadlines or figure out how the cobra system works. Additionally, he had to keep working with the people who decided to kick me out. He almost quit but we were mature enough to say: we can't be both jobless rn, we will over come this. Since we are both immigrants, our support network is smaller than if we were in our country.
Anyway, fortunately, I found a new job at a major agency within a week and I wasn't deported! (yay!!) we would still like to work together again, but this experience made us think about all the things that aren't in our control due to all the processes and emotions of getting laid off.

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