Any one else ever truly ruin your family’s holiday? Just me? Ok

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It 100% happens. Happened to my family (my fault) two years in a row.

Family is about forgiveness, growth, and unconditional love. It’s going to be okay, friend. Make an effort to apologize and love, and it’ll be okay in time.

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Youre 100% right, thank you❤️

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Particularly as we grow older family time can be harder as we are experiencing things away from them. My family time has been challenging for the past few holidays and I’ve just accepted it is what it is. Schedule some alone time (walks, workouts, whatever)

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That’s good advice and very comforting to hear, thank you

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I’m a gay vegetarian. I ruin every holiday.

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gotta be ready to bottom at any moment in time!

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/ anyone else crying this christmas? Know this isnt really the place but feeling really alone and like a total failure right now

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Ogilvy 3. 🤗

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Its a difficult time... lost a parent, mom dating someone new, im young and it still hurts... showed some emotion, hurt my mom’s feelings

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You’re allowed to be angry and sad. And you’re mom has to know that deep down. She’s probably angry and sad too. Forgive yourself for whatever happened and maybe talk it over with your mom when things have cooled down.

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Aw fren :( Everything is ok and today is just one day. Tomorrow will be better, promise ❤️

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Thank you❤️

Uncle kept screaming « TRUMP 2020!!!!!!!!!!..... but Bloomberg cool too »

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Thankfully after our blowup last year there has been a lot less cable news in our household this holiday season

Hey, you’re not alone. Happened in my family a few times. Last year was my fault. Feels like the end of the world because it’s still fresh, trust me. Things are gonna be ok sooner than you think! Sounds cliché, but time heals everything 👍🏻

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Very true, thank you☺️

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Hang in there OP. Every time I visit my mom or she visits me, I manage to make her cry about one thing or another. I have learned that there is nothing I can do to prevent this, and even though it used to feel like it ruined the holiday, it didn’t. I hope with a few days removed from the holiday, you will see it similarly.

I am crying this holiday tho, rough year for me and for some reason my husband is being super unsupportive which is making it worse.

Here’s to better days tomorrow and a bright new year. ❤️

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So sorry to hear that...i hope 2020 brings you the happiness you deserve

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OP - yes, tears here as well. Different reasons, but also tough.
Hang in there! Hoping for tomorrow to be a better day. Take care of yourself, and you will find the strength you need.

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Same to you, thank you

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Cried yesterday, multiple times! This was after a DOOZY on thanksgiving. But I am choosing to be kind to myself, and am committing to healing the hurt beneath the tears. It’s nice to think about what others might observe and think but what’s important is how you feel and getting you to great. Sending healing your way. Xx

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It’s always hard to be around people who don’t understand you. The comfort is knowing you don’t want to understand them and everyone is happy when you can just be surface level happy, eat food, enjoy comfort and say goodbye. Everything is temporary. Focus on you.

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Definitely my focus for 2020, thank you!

May the new year bring more joy to you. Hang in there! x

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Yes. Christmas of ‘11. Took a couple of seasons to recover. It faded with time, and better years come and go and come again.

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I simply skip the family part of the holidays, it hurts more with me there anyway.🥺

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You need to see a therapist asap. Talk it out in a clinical setting and get to the bottom of it with a medically licensed professional.

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