Any tips on how to give a subtle message to guys hitting on me at work that I am just not into "that"? 🤦‍♀️

I recently went from having an incredibly open and intimate long-term relationship with a person I was certain I was going to marry… to now getting asked “what’s your favorite color” on a first date. Godddd I hate dating sometimes

Has anyone here been a long term monogamous relationship? Been dating lots and met some great guys, but seems like everyone wants an open relationship. Doesn’t help that I want kids as well…

Male 🐠, if you and a girl had a “situationship” but obviously had feelings for each other and it had to end for one reason or another, how often do you still think about the girl? Would she be on your mind as you try to move on?

Ok so if I use the Snapchat makeup filter on my zoom call is it super obvious/ look silly? I'm taking about that really subtle one that clears your face up and adds subtle "eyeliner". Do you know what I'm talking about? I don't want to put makeup on for calls but I look washed out without it lol.

M here. I don’t know what it is genuinely that I’m doing wrong. I get barely matches on dating app; I don’t have the shiny muscles to show off on the apps, a 7 or 8 looks wise, great personality, and can easily to talk to anyone. I don’t know how to take the conversation out of the friendly zone to make a girl realize that I want to be sexual with her. Especially F 🐠s, would love to hear your POV on this as I’m sure you’ve encountered guys like me before. M 🐠s, let me hear your take too.

wrong to be irritated when ppl who aren’t your boss/relatively jr just come sit next to your desk while you’re working & start talking/asking you shit? know it’s open plan but maybe check if i’m free

What’s your ideal realatinoship with your SE Manager? What style of leadership do you prefer from them?

When and how do you push back on people senior to you? Fifth year dealing with supersenior associate (11th year) who completely lacks good judgment & common sense. One of those super smart but impractical types. As just one example, he recently called me to tell me to call someone who’s on vacation and ask them to send a calendar invite. I offered to send myself but apparently that wouldn’t work (presumably because it would be efficient & make sense.) At what point (and how) do I Just Say No?

The mid-level associate who directly supervises me isn’t being responsive. I am worried about missing a deadline. Should I keep pinging him? Figure it out on my own? Reach out to someone above him?

When you tell your manager you are unhappy and they are excited that you are putting your notice and don't try and make any changes b/c the new person/persons they are lining up will just cleanup and make it better.

Then, they get here and you are left to train them on everything you do and your manager keeps saying "I owe you an apology" because they didn't realize how taxing and mind wrecking most processes you handled were... welcome to corporate

I’m 35, and going on a first date. Thinking about bringing her flowers. Yea on No? And what would be the perception?

Why does consulting attract so many socially awkward people?

What are your biggest red flags when dating someone new?

Haven’t done the dating thing in a while so need advice! (F here) Met a guy at a party on Sat, followed each other on insta, then I dm’ed him my number saying “lmk if you want to get drinks sometime”. He then texts me and says something along the lines of “yeah let’s do it” but doesn’t offer any concrete plan. Does this mean he’s not super into it? Or am I overreacting and I should initiate the plan? I initiated the insta follow and the dm so I feel like it’s his turn…?

I have seen that Some people are seriously demeaning Publicis Sapient looks like they have a personal grudge. I would suggest to connect with your HR and manager in PS or look for right people on LinkedIn.

Ladies and gents, what’s your
Age, Neighborhood
Ideal date age range
1 non-negotiable

Are you looking:
A - to date casually
B - to date casually but open to something serious
C - for something serious
D - other (specify if comfortable)

Considering dating apps—any insights?

Scheduling added another S3 (my level) to my engagement but acting as a manager, while I’ve been on this engagement for a few years and getting great reviews. My ego is shot and I’m insulted. Advice?

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

Has anyone successfully maintained a sustainable heterosexual open relationship? What’s the secret to maintain a healthy open relationship?

Does Infosys revise the offer letter after accepting it??

When FAANG companies are hiring for UX Design positions do they count all of your general design YOE or only the YOE in a UX role ?

Asked to interview at a small ad agency on a whim by old colleagues that are now running the joint. I had a great informational interview & even talked salary specs. See more below.

Recommendations for warm and windproof gloves? Preferably leather and lets you use your phone’s touchscreen

Hi All, I am having 8+Years of experience in MS SQL, SSIS&SSRS (MSBI)Currently I have 4 offers
Current CTC: 13 LPA(11 Fixed + 2 VP)
1.      Mphasis-MSBI Developer-19LPA (18Fixed+1VP)
2.      ADP -SQL Developer-21.5LPA (19Fixed+1.5VP)
3.      Concentrix Innovation Lab- SQL Developer-21.5LPA (19Fixed+1.5VP)
4.      HTC Global Services -SQL Developer-21.5LPA (19Fixed+1.5VP)

Can you please guide me with which offer to choose between these 4 and why? It is really help to me
Thank you

I overslept and just woke up 🥲 oops

How much are my fellow VP Account Directors out there making? Just trying to gauge if I am being paid fairly. Don’t forget to state market and YOE. I am making $135k, 10 years of experience and in Chicago.

If I had a traditional IRA before being employed in a 401k eligible role, can / must I roll that IRA into the 401k or can I leave the accounts separate without deleterious tax consequences?

Recently I had interview with oracle oci and it went well but haven't heard back from HR , how long does it take to update the interview status. My interview completed last week Tuesday.

Looking for a Senior Graphic Designer- for a financial firms brand relaunch. They are doing contract to hire- $50hour for contract and $100k after conversion.
Remote now but will need to go into an off 3 days in the future
Looking for someone ASAP!

DM me if interested!

Which companies in Canada are giving remote opportunities in the insurance industry?

I teach freshmen who haven't met the only other single teacher in my department. Today, I asked one of them to take something to him and immediately kids started talking about how we were dating. Ugh.

Hello Fishes, can I do DSA from JavaScript?

Not completely political but should baseball players be able to test daily while teachers and healthcare professional cannot

Article to support your option appreciated

Anyone have any experience with Blockchain Capital (VC ICO)/their BCAP tokens?

Can I still do a backdoor ROtH IRA for 2021?

Have you ever actually let loose on a customer? I think about it almost on a daily basis but I’ve managed to keep my cool so far

Anyone in Philly during the week?

I’m an Internet Marketing expert (full scale branding, market research, website, SEO, social...) but new to consulting. Need advice on how to structure my fees/rates/retainer. Advice?

I love how it says 1-50 members, like they really should’ve done smaller increments. How am I supposed to know if it’s just the same 3 people posting all the time

Anyone in this bowl know of a better bowl to join? Seems inactive 😞

This is a sad bowl you guys. How can we bring it back to life?

Happy Lesbian Visibility day! What are you going to do today?

What dating sites would you recommend? I feel all the good sites have a limited gay pool..

Any west coast lesbians 29-38 want to chat?

Anyone in ATL during the week? I want to explore 😁

I’m really into older women, just wish I knew where to meet them

Bay Area - hey (:

Partner of 2 years has asked for space. No contact for a month but agreed to go to couples therapy then. This after a really hard month relationally and then she had to put her dog down. Asked for..

Anybody having issues dating because the only people you ever see are clients or coworkers or your married bartender?

Can’t sleep. Any ladies want to chat? 👩🏽

DC Metro folks, we should do brunch/happy hour

Is anyone going to any fun events for NYC Pride?

I feel like the lesbians that I’ve been matching with don’t have real jobs. Why is it so hard to find a professional? Anyone here up for a date in the NYC area? Prefer femmes

Just got out of the Army and transitioned to the business world. I have no clue how to dress. I’ve worn a uniform almost everyday for 7 years. Anyone have any advice for how to dress in the workplace?

Bette and Tina or Bette and Jodie? Discuss