Anyone else the only LGBT person at their firm/office?

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Yeah, same here. I'm in NYC, so I would've bet all my power tools & flannel that I'm not the only one.

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I’m one but still stuck in the closet. Not sure how they would take it if I came out..

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Thought I was the only one until I was featured in a newsletter and got a bunch of emails from folks thanking me for being so open!

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No, I'm in one of the biggest offices in NY so it would be weird to be the only one...

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I mean that I know of.....

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Small office (~150 people) in the south. If there’s any others, they keep it to themselves just like I do.

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I'm also in the South, but our office is less than 50. Been open since day 1 and have never felt any sort of discrimination. My office is also full of a much younger crowd even at the Partner level. I'm sure that helps.

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No plenty in Boston

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Hard to tell because I don’t find many people are open about it. I’m only open when I can tell my peers are cool / accepting but if I’m around older partners then I’m usually more private

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Ya

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I know of a handful in other offices, but not mine

What size office? About a decade ago, at PwC I was one of 2 I knew of in a 600 person Office. Although I was pet of a small team and really didn’t socialize a lot with others in the office.

i work in nj...probably the only one

When I was at PwC, I was one of 3 openly gay and the only staff (The others were a partner (Consulting) and a manager (Audit). At Pro, I am the only one... Plenty of allies though...

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