Does anyone else struggle to make friends here? It's so hard to make time to meet people and nurture a new friendship 😓Do you have any tips for making friends as someone in their late 20s?

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Same here data analyst same here

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Running clubs! Tennis!

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Finding hobbies and chatting to people in those hobbies is a good way to make friends:) Moved here a year ago and totally feel the same way. Tougher here bc everyone is driving

Same here , even harder in 30s

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Lived here for 20 years, doesn’t get any easier. Met friends through interest in same activities, lasts for a bit but then people go separate ways. Unfortunately, I have no advice. It’s much harder when you’re out of school.

Born & raised here, but as EY mentioned people go their separate ways; our lives change. So as someone mentioned, try meetups. I can't stress this enough as I go through periods where my social groups change & get smaller & I know I need to meet new people to have a social life. I've been doing a lot of meetups the last month & will be going to one tonight. It has led to me meeting people who I have now hung out with outside the meetups including doing hikes, grabbing brunch & introducing me to others. Definitely give it a try.

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