Hi Guys

Please provide inputs. I'm bisexual M, during college I got attracted to my friend who was sleeping with me and I touched his intimate parts. Initially he stopped me, but over time,we did similar stuff multiple times.
He's straight. Recently I wanted to forget these things so I cut off all contacts with him as I may get married soon, but sometimes I get extreme urge for the same things we did.

How should I deal with this?

How can I approach my boyfriend who has an alcohol problem to help him get healthier ?

Do you ever get over an ex you loved?

I’m with a guy I’m 100% confident is deeply in love with me, would never lie/cheat/betray, respects me/listens to me, and tries to help me live my best life.
(A Kokoum, if you will.)
I love him very much, but I’m not “head over heels”.
Afraid that if I break it off because our relationship is cozy instead of the deep love I think it’s supposed to be for life partnership/marriage, I’ll be making the biggest mistake of my life

Breakup etiquette- we broke up and I was supposed to go to his relatives’s wedding in a couple of weeks. I know the couple, not super well, but have hung out and texted individually as well. Should I let them know I won’t be attending and wish them well or don’t reach out to them?

Any book recommendations to gift my cousin sister? She studied (masters) psychology and is a trained classical dancer.

My boyfriend just found my vibe...

Why is dating here so hard… -.- or maybe it’s just me RIP

Do any female desis who are married take care of their own parents?

Looking for perspective: Did money play a role in evaluating whether someone could be your life partner?

People who have cheated in their previous relationships, how did you come to realize the reason behind your behavior? A close friend confided in me that she has cheated in all her previous relationships and struggles to understand the reasoning behind it. She feels a lot of shame and is trying to understand why she does what she does.I have suggested therapy but she is not ready yet. How did you folks arrive at the root cause behind your behavior? Advice? Book suggestions that I can pass along?

Married to a crazy rich girlfriend and it's the worst experience of my life. She can afford anything, flying first class everywhere, wears all branded stuff and she doesnt have to work for life. I am working very hard to provide for family and I am still not able to add any value to her life and she's been distancing herself. We havent had any meaningful interaction in the past 1 year too, been sleeping separately, no touch/kiss/sex or anything like that. We might be divorcing soon...

My mom’s friend was supposed to come to my wedding in a week and just cancelled. I’ve never met her but my mom insisted she be invited. This person already sent us a check which we deposited already; we already sent a thank you card. This person left me a VM saying they were sorry they couldn’t come; they have leukemia and their Dr. didn’t approve. Do I need to call them back? I would like to avoid an awkward phone call about personal matterwith a stranger but also don’t want to be insensitive.

I just wanted to take a quick moment to say that you are all doing a great job with this ridiculous, unprecedented juggling act of trying to be a parent, teacher, lawyer and human. Hang in there!

How do I figure out spending with my SO? Initially I was paying for 90% of stuff (no actual bills, just going out). I talked to her and said we need to be more even. She was never proactive. She kind of got offended but we ended on a good note to split things. It went well for a couple weeks but now it's back to normal. She never takes out her card and only venmos me if I send her the request. She lets Venmos sit for weeks before paying them. I still let a lot of things slide.

What do young single people do other then date and hang with friends?

Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

How many folks here looking to actually connect for serious relationship (potentially converting to marriage)?

I’ll start 🙋🏻‍♂️ 30, located in the US (east coast) - open to worldwide relocation.

Which dating app you recommend to use?

(Preferably free to low cost)
For dating and relationships!

Question that could belong here or in the Relationships bowl:

How do women prefer to be turned down if the guy they’re pursuing is not interested. I know men have the capacity to deal with rejection poorly, and I’m not suggesting otherwise. But in my anecdotal experience , women take the gentle “no thanks, not interested” poorly.

Salaam. 26 M. Houston. My hobbies are traveling, watching sports, and hanging out with friends. Hope to get married this year, ان شاء الله.

Hello Fishes, is 15 LPA a reasonable compensation for Machine learning engineer (python, c++, computer vision and deep learning ) with 2 years of experience, current working for a product based company. If not what is the current industry standard. I keep seeing people posting 30+ LPA for data science roles with 3+ yoe.

What’s a realistic salary expectation for a Senior Designer in NYC? Totally clueless what to say when recruiters ask my range

I stopped contributing to my 401K for the last three months in order to pay off credit card debt. I am 28 and have about 68K in my 401K. Was this a smart decision? I want to get out of debt as quickly as possible and I have no student loans or car debt.

Do you think clubhouse will be a hot in the longer run?

Can you please recommend apps or other resources to develop remote onboarding?

Can someone tell me if a HRBP III is more senior level than a HRBP I? I’ve never really dealt with those titles so I am a little confused!

Hello, which is more beneficial Master’s in Human Resources or PHR Certification?

Im a junior level analyst at working in Asset servicing. I want to move to Equity research in about a year. What would I need skills wise to be able to move. (More context I’ve got a masters in finance and no prior work experience. Based on the UK)

Can someone please help me with the scope of Advisory role in Procurement Transformation team ?
Also, how is WLB and travel requirements away from base location.

How much Salesforce can offer for a 4 years Salesforce developer? Considering programming skills are good and have good knowledge on LWC and integrations?

Is it worth applying for a position with a firm you are directly adverse to on a matter or will conflicts definitely keep you from joining?

Been with tech consulting for 5 years but no growth - total YOE 11 yrs - in the area of risk and regulatory consulting and implementation - not too many quality calls during this pandemic- seeking inputs from forum fishes and if anyone is interested in referring to Industry or consulting firms.. thanks !

Does anyone talk about economic diversity? You know middle class and economically challenged people who cannot afford art schools and expensive private colleges?

Anyone working in Accops, pune?

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I am deeply shocked and hurt for the kind of things she has spoken for me and for my family in front of everyone, I don’t want to live with her anymore, i am feel very low and lonely but i fear that they would drag my family to the court and imply fake FIR as they say and she said very clearly that she will not let me walk out of this marriage easily. They have trapped us by pretending like a very good family with values, and showed their true colours after the marriage. Please suggest

I like my job, and my team, and what I do. But damn if I’m not underpaid 😅 small company problems lol. I know I’ll have a salary review next spring (one year) but I’m working a second job cuz student loans blow ass lol. Gotta repay those degrees I don’t use anymore 🙃

Don’t mind me just venting lol. Carry on!

Bhailog jate hue balo ko kaise roka jaye

Best Clothing brands. Drop in your suggestions:

Shirts:
1. USPA
2. Peter England (Formals)
3. Allen Solly ( Comparatively cheaper than other brands)
4. Superdry
5. Levis

Polos:
1. Superdry
2. USPA
3. Calvin Klein
4. Allen Solly
5. Tommy Hilfiger

Tshirts:
1. Levis
2. Superdry
3. USPA

Wallets:
1. Tommy Hilfiger (Buy from Myntra)

Briefs:
1. Calvin Klein
2. Jockey - Only Tactel series

Trunks:
1. Jockey - Only Tactel series
2. Calvin Klein - Established series

Vests:
1. Van Heusen
2. USPA

What's the amount you generally spend while buying office clothes?

Let's make this group better. Suggestions?

Thinking to drop a few YT videos on fashion, clothing, grooming etc

Is it okay to trim your chest hair?

Note: Not the entire chest, just the hair visible in case your top 2 buttons are open/or the hair which is above your vest area.

Is it worth going for AM?

Kya chal raha dosto nind ni aa ri yaar😂

Offtopic:

Took a Tommy Hilfiger watch few years ago and wanted to get it repaired. How do I get it done?

Don't remember the outlet I took it from

Guys, ditch your briefs and trunks.

Switch to boxer briefs. They're the best.

Someone recommended me them 2 days back and I wonder why did I not know about this since past 7-8 years.

Thank me later 😂😂

Guys thoughts on #NNN..??
Any 1 lost already..?

Need your guidance. I am trying to learn driving. Joined a driving school and practised on their vehicle for 10 days and on my vehicle for 10 days. However, still I don't have the confidence to drive. What should I do to start driving confidently

Hey guys.. anyone looking for good friend... Getting saturated with wfh :(

Is it normal to sleep only in your vest and briefs?

Peeps, what's your fap frequency? (no of times Done daily/weekly)

My salary is 16LPA fix +10% variable pay. M i earning enough? Have a family of 3. Additional info- Rented house in Delhi, car emi