How do you guys deal with a complicated coworker?
The Sr ‘client manager’ I work with is by far the worst manager I’ve ever had. Constantly belittling and reiterating I’m ‘not at her level’ which is very uncalled for. Unfortunately this person made the way through the company and it feels like she’s protected by this place. Brought it up to my Bizz director but I just made up a way to avoid conflict which is basically only listening to work related stuff.

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My advice it to protect yourself. Do your job, don't take their barbs personally, and eventually they will move on to a new target or a new job. Bullies only act the way they do because they feel confident there are no repercussions

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This is what I’ve been trying to do but we’re a small team so unless I grow and have my own accounts I don’t see it stopping any time soon. This person does it with almost everyone. Also said that CEOs and BD are not any superior than her. Zero self awareness.

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If you have a mentor internally, speak to them and ask them to help you. This seems toxic and not OK. Reach out to someone at a similar level or your direct manager (if its not this person) and have a candid conversation about it.

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People can be a bit arrogant and frankly that’s to be expected in sales a lot of the time, they kind of have to be a little bit but not too much hopefully. However, blatant disrespect, discrimination, belittling, harassment, any of those things are quite literally not allowed to happen at a company so if this person is stepping over the line especially then talk to this person first and simply address the issues in a respectful manner, then talk to your leadership, if it’s not resolved then talk to HR and file a formal complaint.

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You do not know what is going on in the Sr client managers life, there is normally a reason for peoples behaviour. So my advice is do not take it personally do your job to the best of your ability and when you leave at the end of the day you know that you did your best.

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Side note: The above is referring to a daily basis situation which is what I refer to in my post. Not talking about specifics or every now and then which I would understand better.

Tell her to go suck her Mom's (D')

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