Is it completely okay to look for House Wife ? Or Society won't accept me ?

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Lagta h jald hi firse switch krna padega 🤔 , minimum requirements kya rhenge bata sakte ho please

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It is okay to look for House wife..as long as you are ready to pay all her bills... she has easy access to your bank accounts to spend money whenever she wants without your permission.. you don't ask her why she is spending your hard earned money.. you don't yell during fights saying what do you do entire day staying at home...you are okay to have house helps/cooks if she wants.. without saying why do you need them, you do nothing....if you are okay with all of these...sure you can.. else just get a full time house help and adopt a kid...your life will be easier...

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Hmm, i dont think I should get married. Life is so good right now.

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Always marry lower than your status..that is a general advice for all men

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Depends on girl to girl truly.

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Society won't be paying for your child's education so the decision is yours. 😄

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A. Society shouldn't influence who you marry and for what reasons or you will never be happy. B. I am sure you can find a woman who wants to be a housewife, and then you can both be happy. Just don't try to make a woman who doesn't want to be a housewife your wife.

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bhai kuchh to log kahenge, logo ka kaam h kehna.

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Most of my friends getting married are getting house wives. It's totally fine. (Not that you should ever care about what society thinks, just saying)

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Society is always in contradiction. They will always be on opposite site of your discussion. So see what's right for you.

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What's wrong with looking for a House Wife?

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If you think you will get more support at home just because she is housewife it may not be true. Look for what quality she has also make sure to let the girl know that you want a housewife...

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Mmm...I don't think so, but with any girl you pursue, please make this a focal point as many girls will not agree. A lot will, but good to have that discussion early on.

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Nah, I think the arrangement is between you and your wife, Society will only react if one or the other gets treated badly but overall, I think there's a lot of factors to consider, Society's opinion being the least of it.

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It’s totally upto you man! Don’t bother about society.

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Girls who can't earn will marry someone, same may not he possible for men

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Society dont take care of ur family!!

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What's wrong in that.. house wife is better than all jobs

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I don't see why not. If that is what you are looking for then go for it. Who cares what society thinks

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I don't understand one thing, why most girls don't want to stay with their in laws ?

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Exactly

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Just want a girl which will get along with my mother. Don't want to be that person which is stuck between wife and mother because they are not ready to understand each other.

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Dont bother, take care of your parents yourself, girls nowdays dont do that. And i dont think their is any need to getting married, stay single enjoy life.

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