Is it completely okay to look for House Wife ? Or Society won't accept me ?

I know this isn’t a marriage therapy bowl, but my husband has a really terrible tendency of saying things like “you’re being really mean” and completely shutting down during a disagreement when i objectively am not being mean, just truthful or vocal about how i feel about something. It’s a really convenient argument for him because it enables him to either be the victim and me the villian, or forces me to concede my stance and not reach a true resolution. Any tips on dealing with the irrational?

I struggle with imposter syndrome big time and want to start therapy, but I really don't want my husband to find out that I'm going to a therapist. It'd just be too embarassing. Is that awful of me?

if someone joined EY gds within how many days he/she can add their dependents???

in which month??

female here...I feel like quarantine is driving me crazy and I’m looking for a distraction. Recently married but I don’t feel that sense of completion...I’ll admit I’ve always been one to stray but now I’m looking for an outside comfort more than ever. But even more so on top of that I think I’m struggling with feelings of being bisexual and never properly exploring it

My wife and I just had our second child, and we have also been dealing with her cervical cancer diagnosis. It has been a stressful year, to say the least. I want to do something nice for her, but money is tight right now because of the cancer treatment costs, and her being on unpaid leave because of the cancer treatments. What is something low cost I can do that will be a nice “couples thing” so we can de-stress, but also make her feel special?

How do you deal with a spouse who spends inordinate amount of money on family back home. Usually don’t mind, but of-late has been excessive and our family seems to be a second thought.

Family member saw me working out hard and called me a "retard" for pushing myself being at max speed and "making faces". Seriously? When you push hard, it's supposed to be - hard. No?

What are you all reading other than maternity help books? Any book recommendations for after baby is born? Mainly around how to keep the baby safe from injuries and incidents.

Any suggestions for getting kids to do homework? Sped Math 6th grade high need area - I cannot get these kids to turn in hw. Anyone agree with the idea of allowing class time for HW? I am at a loss

Best divorce lawyer in NYC?

To those who divorced or called off the engagement, did you take the ring back? And if so, what did you do with it?

I deeply miss my ex. The breakup was initiated by me 5 years ago because I was scared to commit. Since then, I’ve gotten married and have a daughter. I’m so embarrassed to admit it but I think about my ex everyday. I am so sad that I walked away from him. Life is ok now - I’m thankful for my family but my heart hurts. How do I move on?

Does anyone have experience or know of someone who went on a FWA (part-time) but didn't have kids? I'm unmarried and no kids but considering a move to 30 or so hrs/week for my sanity.

How do you know if you have outgrown someone? Known my boyfriend for 2 years but have dated seriously only for 6 months. Confused as why i’m feeling this way.

Anyone want to bar crawl the beltline tonight? I moved here during the pandemic and have no friends around

Family luddites ask about my work and immediately behave annoyed when I start to answer.

I miss truly being excited about someone, getting the butterflies and all. Being excited about your day all because you will get to see someone… must be one of the best feelings in the world.

Partners with kids and a working spouse, how do you manage? Is it realistic for both people in the relationship to work full time long term? How do you keep marriage going and career progressing?

Any consulting moms in the area? Desperately in need of in town friends.

Really want to stay WFH for longer, it’s really worked out well for me. Any ideas what companies could be WFH long term ?

I work in a firm that is known for litigation defense. I’ve been developing my own plaintiffs practice as well. I am able to pay the bills with my hourly defense work, which gives me time to focus on a handful of high value PI case a year on contingency. I was recently negotiating a case and was told part of the reason the claims rep/OC was jerking me around was because they didn’t see me as a plaintiffs attorney. Is there any way to change this perception or does it just come over time?

Tom Bagot, RIP

How do some of y’all manage to go 2+ years without a raise? Like are you just really good at budgeting?

I’m interviewing with another firm next week. Has anyone made a switch like that before? How did you do it? I work in a small criminal firm now. Interview is with a same size/practice area firm.

Advice on networking? Especially if you don't have common interests... find it kind of hard being an Asian and not really interested in sports or watch Netflix!

Sooo who’s working on Pfizer’s covid vaccine?

Our senior creative leadership keep talking about winning Cannes Lions and D&AD pencils but none of them have actually won any since 2007 (that’s 14 years 😭 ) and between all three of them they’ve never won more than a couple of silvers, a couple of bronzes and a couple of in-books (that’s with a combined experience of over 60 years 😭). They have no clue 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭. Tell me something about your agency so that I can feel better about the hell-hole I find myself in🙏

This is not my wheelhouse so I’m not sure of the answer. If someone is writing a “memoir” and is including me in it, and I DONT want to be in the book, do I have any legal recourse? I understand since it’s been published it doesn’t meet any invasion of privacy or potential defamation yet, but is there something I can do preliminarily to protect myself and stop my inclusion?

Guys, if you live in a small apt, where do you put your hamper/laundry basket?

Deloitte peeps (especially federal travelers): what's the policy if your flight home is delayed? Can you expense a hotel/per diem for Friday?

Any recommendations for a work desk?
Not looking for something too big or pricey. Easy assembly / disassembly is a plus.
I see foldable desks going for $100. Any foldable standing desks out there?

FAANG folks - what are Facebook/Google roles like Country Lead/Industry Lead equivalent to? Are these Director level roles? What sort of compensation can you expect in something like that role?

Anyone having high cholesterol issues (high LDL and triglycerides?). I have been trying to eat healthier (mostly salads during weekdays, no red meat or egg yolks), exercise 3-4 times a week butnn no probably need to increase even more. My doctor might have to put me on meds

Please help - My fiancé’s side of the family is huge and we’re having a really tough time finding anything close to our budget for 200-250 people. Has anyone found any venues in the Catskills/CT/MA/even PA that don’t require their own food/bev? Also general reassurance is great too 😞

Applying for a job at Aha! Feeling very passionately about this company and was wondering if there are any recruiters who can help to recommend me for the position.

Anyone use magnetic earrings to promote lymph flow? Notice any effects or have any info to share on that topic?

Hi! How much should I make as a dental office manager in DFW? I’ve been working for 15 years at the office and I would like to ask for a raise.

Great India clearly supported Russia by abstaining on UNSC bill that condemns Russia.
Now India should not expect any support from the UN or the Quad if it is cornered by China eventually.
Also it my make the west ponder over any more FDI in India and they might also cut the existing trade ties and MOUs inevitably affecting the jobs.
Well done Government 👏
PS: Russia didn't supported India when China invaved in Galwan

I am getting third party company mails ,like working for xx client should I apply them?

Anyone knows about company Shopee. how is WLB here? what benefits it gives to employees?

Hi guys,

Is it better to go for lead ba role cloud consulting company or scrum master in product based company?

CTC is almost same. Looking for career growth, learning wlb..please help with pros and cons.

Current role : lead ba
YOE : 5

Hello fishes,
I have been recently cleared technical discussion round one for Accolite Digital. And my next round is supposed to be Client interview round. What type of questions can I expect? Will it also be a technical round or managerial?

Yoe 3years
Tech stack- Java, MySQL

Totally tired of working today,
Any betterment tips?

Posting for a friend!

MBA graduate in Marketing. Changed companies very frequently but stayed at Oyo for almost 2years as Zonal manager until the lay off. After ~1year of trying during covid, got a job as Client Advisor in NoBroker. It has been 5months but the pressure is high. Now wants to work in IT. Any advice how one should proceed? Which certification will help and where to get it?

Total YOE- 4years
Non Btech
Current package- 5lpa
Total companies- 4

Is it worth it to go back to school for a better track to a FAANG company? The division I’m currently in seems like there are no good opportunities, and I have the funds available to finish my undergraduate full time (Canada). I applied to Amazon before for a highly senior position and made it to final interview so I think I would have a better chance for a new grad type role.

Hi Fishes,

Share your knowledge on which companies have lesser notice period say 60 days or even less than that..

TIA

Need suggestion.
I've over 14 years of exp and primarily in Java and Oracle. I want to shift towards Data Science and I'm learning python. Any idea how can i get jobs related to DS and any certification or recommended courses?

I have attended technical interview for eygds.
I could answer majority of the questions.

But didn't received any response from them.
It's been more than a week.

Did anyone attended eygds interview for java developer recently.
@eygds

Are there any disadvantages of joining a C2H role purely on the basis of high CTC even though it is for a big client of the contractor company?

How do you guys work around a 3 month notice period?

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