My wife was laid off yesterday. My household income was cut by half, just like that. With all the financial weight over my shoulders until she finds something, I feel like a plane flying with only one engine.

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Happened to me a year ago. After the shock and grief period, I found comfort in laying out a new budget. Numbers are predictable and that made me feel better. Simplify your lifestyle as much as possible. Cut anything that feels like you could go without it for 6-10 months. See it as a chance to reset your priorities. Surprisingly, the year my wife was out of work, was the simplest and most freeing year of our partnership. We might have lost some luxuries, but man, we connected on a deeper level than ever before. You’ll get through this. And who knows, you might find out this simpler life is the one that makes you more happy. Even if it’s just getting by on a tight budget.

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Thank you—I really needed to hear that. This came completely out of the blue. We’ve always tried to live frugally, but this is a tough hit. We’re not exactly young anymore, and if my wife isn’t able to find something soon, this could have an impact on our life savings.

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Larsen & Toubro Infotech Hi folks, Please help me which organisation should I go with Citius tech or LTimindtree? As recession is approaching and due to which layoffs are going on as we all know so which one is more safe to join. Please share your thoughts, which will help me to take the decision.
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I’ve been having reoccurring nightmares about getting laid off :(

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Smart to look for a new job with a “recession” looming? Wanted to leave by end of the year, but nervous I’d be the first laid off at a new spot

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Interested in a San Francisco/Bay Area networking/support group for consultants that have been laid off?
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Layoffs at Ogilvy NYC...

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I felt very good following Dana’s Town Hall. Having heard other networks are already facing furloughs and layoffs, did you feel as encouraged?

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I have been laid off going on 3 months now and I’ve never felt so discouraged in my life. This job hunt for me has been frustrating and draining. It really has taken a toll on my mental health and maybe even confidence. I feel like I’m losing momentum. Any advice on staying positive throughout this journey? It’s so hard to stay upbeat and motivated at times.

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So my partner will be getting laid off 4/15. 🥺

Let the games begin, and may the odds be ever in your favor.

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how many employees got laid off from zs in recent days and which job profile has been affected the most?

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If I get fired while on OPT without getting my H1-B stamped, is it useless or can it be used in future for some other job?

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I wish Ad salaries were like NBA salaries. Each year you get a ridiculous raise no matter how shitty you perform. If you are good you get bird rights and no layoff clauses. And retire at 35.

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Any agency layoffs yet? (I obviously hope not. Just trying to get a sense of where agencies are sitting.)

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V20 NY, firm expectation is to bill 2K-2.4K a year. What happens if I bill 1800? How long until I get fired?

I can handle getting a talking to, or even getting berated. But when will real repercussions happen?

Fwiw, I’m a first year.

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Dad got laid off. Drinking got worse. Attempted assault on sis and mom. Had to put up in hotel. No clue on next steps (legal and personal). Project is complete shit show and SM is not getting it. Idk man...

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Have y’all ever heard a COMPANY giving an employee 30 days notice and after those 30 days an employee is no longer with the company?

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With so much uncertainty in the economy and waves of layoffs that have hit tech especially hard... do we think there's really such a thing as a recession-proof job anymore if you're not an "essential worker"?

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Enrolled in Stern for a few weeks.
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