Relapsed and I start a new job in a week. I need to get it together before then. I hateee myself a lot rn. Ugh. Hopefully I’ll come down and sleep tomorrow and be okay for the last week and when I start the new job. Just had to vent I guess. Thanks for listening and hope everyone is doing well and staying safe during these times!

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Take it easy on yourself and get back to what you know. Reach out if you need to get things off your chest.

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One day at a time ❤️❤️❤️

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Don’t beat yourself up but take the next right step. Do you have a sponsor? Your next meeting planned? Sober peeps you can call? I’m here if you need an ear.

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Don’t beat yourself up. Relapse is a part of recovery. It took me 18 months going in and out of AA to finally ‘get it’. Now I’ve got 7 years. Jobs come and go, but sobriety still comes first. Get to a meeting, call someone, do the next right thing. We’re all here for you.

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Yes, for some of us relapse is part of our recovery story. Hitting bottom takes on different forms. Get or talk to your sponsor. Go to as many meetings as you can and talk about it. Lastly DO NOT beat yourself up. guilt and shame is diseased thinking. You can do this! And yay for your new job! You’ll be amazing as long as you stay sober! 🤗🙏

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Thankyou all! Ivee gone on a bender :( work isn’tbad this week so I can recover intime to start my new job Wed. Trying to tell myself mylife isn’t over. Thank you all again!

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Don’t beat yourself up. Get right back on track and continue the journey ❤️

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How are you doing OP?

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Hanging in, thanks for checking in. coming down from the crash now. Slept a lot today and feel like shit mentally/physically - on top of being nervous for the start of the new job this week.

Yea, what’s up? Hope you’re doing well.

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I’m ehh, thanks for checking in. Finally coming down now and feel like shit mentally/ physically. I’m exhausted and anxious and disappointed in myself and my house is a mess (I thought I cleaned while high but I guess I made a mess), on top of the nerves about starting a new job this week.

The fact you’re sharing that it here, is an amazing step. Stay close to your sober network and try to focus on being a worker among workers in your next role. You can do this, one day at a time 🙏

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We’re for you OP

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Do it TODAY

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Hey OP. How are you doing?

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Better thanks! Still feeling exhausted but better. The weeeknd is coming up and I’m going to try and stay busy. So far, I really like my new job!

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