Started traveling weekly over the past year and it has put a big strain on my 5 year relationship. My girlfriend wants me to get a different job but I honestly don't want to. Any advice?

Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

Has the overturning of Roe v. Wade significantly impacted anyone's relationships? I lost two friends who were pro-life and on the verge of losing another. Wondering if I'm being too rigid in my perspective or if this is normal in Texas

How to deal with a relationship trauma? Especially when your ex has moved on.

So much baggage brought into the relationship. 2 years in and just discovered a whole lot more. Its been mentally extremely difficult and it’s changed me as a person. Just venting but feel hopeless and I know my SO is suffering. Wish there was a solution but I’m losing hope

Sometimes I feel like I am a drone that just works all the time and I have no friends.

Has anyone else told their religious parents that they were moving in with an SO before marriage? I did, it didn’t go super well- they disapprove of it (cont)

My partner of 5 years ended our relationship last night. I’m shattered and feel absolutely sick, and I know the healing isn’t going to be easy. We were on the verge of an engagement and I was ready to spend the rest of my life with him.

I don’t know how to approach work during this time. I think I can get by, but I’m definitely not 100%. Should I talk to my boss about it? My team is close-knit and comfortable around each other, but I don’t know if it’s “appropriate.” What would you do?

Anyone here 40s never married, no kids?

Can a relationship survive with two tops/bottoms? I met a guy I really liked but we are… on the same side

What do you do about your house plants if both you and your SO are out of the house for an extended period? I could move some of the smaller ones to friends, but there are planters that are attached to balcony and patio. Any ideas 🐠?

Planning on telling my parents about my white boyfriend this weekend…. Any tips or words or motivational words please

Family luddites ask about my work and immediately behave annoyed when I start to answer.

Been having trouble moving on since girlfriend ended relationship 3 weeks ago after 2+ years of dating. Before ending it she came over 3 weeks prior to basically give me a chance to work things out and we had a good discussion but then I went back into our routine and didn’t really fight for it or have serious follow up convos that we needed. Now I just have so many regrets that I let her go. I know we still love each other and left on “good” terms but can’t forgive myself for my lack of action.

Anyone stuck in an unhappy marriage? How do you deal with loneliness of this profession and complicated family life

I’m (early30s) about 8 months into a relationship with a 40m. Things are wonderful in every aspect, but he is absolutely atrocious with his finances. I felt it becoming an issue about two months ago. He forgets about auto payments and just generally doesn’t care. I sat down with him and looked at everything and even after talking it out he still continues to stress and it’s now causing me stress. I had a final discussion with him today about it and he went on abt how love isn’t enough for me…

How many of you are doing back up care/day care/ child care vs managing children at home? What's your thoughts around this, pros and cons?

Those who had their babies, are you guys making your whole family take tdap vaccine? Like parents, in laws, siblings? We haven't asked but what if they dont want to?

Some say perfect love doesn't exists.... but let me tell you that's because they never experienced it 🥰

What to do when parents dig their toes into your relationship? They don't approve of who I'm with and very vocal about it.

In 10 years, this may be in the rear view or they may not let up. Anyone with experience in this?

Aldi at Digitas? 👀

Seeing how 401k’s, ira’s etc..are mostly based in stocks. What happens if we have another Great Depression and the stock market crash’s. Even if you have Real estate investments, if ppl can’t pay rent like with Corona, that’s not really helpful. So what are other ways in addition to those mentioned is there to help secure you into old age? 

Which one of your firm’s permanent life insurance products would you buy, and why, assuming you got a good health rating ?

Hi ladies, I'm in my mid 40s and I think I'm entering peri. I currently have a Mirena but I should replace it again soon, but one more will put me into my 50s(!!) and I was wondering if anyone here knows that they're in peri or menopause without having periods. Is there blood work or something to check? I definitely do not want to have another child accidentally. I've got 5 more years until my youngest is in college and don't want to start over again.

Pick up day tomorrow ; Doctor suggests performing an additional elective procedure such as IVM, ZyMot, and Gold-media.Any fishes have any feedback on these procedures? What was your experience if any of you had done.
Appreciate the help.

Can someone recommend a good dentist out here?

Is cab facility available at tiaa? And is that on charge basis?

How much should I charge per hour for a ux side job? Located in Vancouver, BC / Sr product designer 5+ years of experience

What are the best websites you’ve used when applying for a new job? Any that are specific to saas/tech sales or ones that have yielded good response rates?

Bengali Male here, single. Living in Pune.
Is anyone interested to be friends?

Might end up dating, if we get along well!

Has anyone had any luck with in getting a specific answer on what licensing is required for specific “edge” features (e.g. shared HCM or supplier model for FIN. How far into either can you go?).

Hi Fishes,

I am S4 ABAP developer having 9+ years of experience. I have HR round today. How much should I negotiate with HR. What's the standard package given by Wipro for 9+ years exp. Please guide.

Hey Fishes,

Would love your support of 11 ♥️ as need to activate dms.

What are your good reasons to HATE on AGILE?

Any fish in Melbourne Australia looking to exit for a role in cybersecurity??

I worked the majority of 2020 from home. Office is in NYC but live in another state. Why do I need to pay tax to NY?

Need suggestions for home office chair with high back and/or neck support. Feels like holding my head up all day is causing all my pain. 400-600 range please. Love Herman Miller but can never imagine dropping $1500 for a chair…

Anyone have insight into Warbird Consulting Partners?

Here's a question I wish I never had to ask. Is it better to use the code for bereavement leave or just burn pto I'm going to lose anyway? Does it make a difference from a utilization standpoint?

What is your home office set up like? Interested in buying a monitor (34 inches?) and wondering if it is the right choice.

Hi 🐟!! How many have been using a standing desk during this time? Are you able to stand the majority of the day? Has it helped with concentration? Thanks!

What is the salary range for Managing Consultant (Enagagement Manager role) at Mastercard advisors (base + bonus)? Location: New York

Realizing how fast time flies by how quickly the monthly Internet password seems to change at the Admirals Club

You know you've been traveling the same route too often when the convenience store cashier at the airport recognizes you...

Any audio book recommendations to listen to when backpacking / vacationing?

My RL didn’t have a formal mid year pre CRT review with me. He just pinged me and said: I’ll represent you. Utilization = 75% and average snapshots. Am I at risk?

Do commercial consulting folks make more than Federal? I'm a second year, campus hire SC in Federal making 98.

Enough is enough. I just downloaded LinkedIn jobs. I can't do this anymore. My reviews aren't improving and I have no life. I'm scared because I don't know what job I want. Where do I even begin?

All I want to do is curl up in bed with hot tea and a good book. Recommendations for if I ever achieve said dream?

3 Day PTO starts now...my buddy's bachelor party. Forget you, utilization.

How much do you pay for rent in your city. I’ll start, DC $3,000 1-bed

How do you 100% utilized folks try to network with other folks in at the firm if you’re always at client site? Trying to get some face time with them

Ex GF said to me she doesn't know anyone else who works as hard as I do...wtf does that even mean? #workharddontstop

Hey all, can you pls recommend resources to get up to speed on Fraud and Risk management for Payments in fintech? Books /sites? I’m not in consulting anymore so no access to internal decks. Thanks!