Struggling with an extremely hyperactive 13 year old in afternoon. He is also argumentative. I have to remove him from the room constantly! I need good strategies!

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Does he like something, alot? Offer a reward for staying on task, increase amount of time or amount of tasks to increase his stamina. Give breaks, maybe a break card, that he can give you but limit the number of times it canbe used, but increase / decrease as he gains ability to ask for a break.

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First, then language. Give him breaks between smaller tasks to build up his stamina for staying focused.

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