The Boomer ellipses drive me crazy. I'm not sure what it means when my boss starts adding them to messages.

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I’m not a boomer and nowhere near that age range but I use ellipses alllll the time and I can’t stop 😭😭😭

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It means “I’m senile and I’m not done with my thought…I’m not sure if this is what the kids do ‘nowadays’, but I saw my teenagers do this on AIM in the 00s - so it must be cool and I can relate to you.”

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They use it to separate multiple ideas in a single message bc they’re old and used to having to do that, so it became a way to separate ideas for them. Terrible.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8XE3GegQSw/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_rid=12cdc4a0-eff9-49ed-b7bd-0e1ef087c683&ig_mid=311A7272-5425-4B5D-B8A3-6D2A1A18C62C

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I hate when they use two spaces after a sentence!

I am cooler than you.

I feel like this is a genx thing

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