This might be controversial but I work with several older Black folks, and it's from that I've experienced the most criticism or judgment at work. I think it's probably coming from a good placed and from their lived experiences at the firm, but it's discouraging. Not the case for everyone, but it's happened more than once where I work.

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Something I am trying to learn is taking everything as a opportunity vs a barrier. If someone I work with is harder on me, it is my chance to step up and show them what I can do and become a better professional. If we always play the victim, you will never be in control of the outcome. Doesn’t mean I don’t bitch and moan about it but at points I will have clarity that this can only make me better

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This is a great way to think about, going to see if I can shift my perspective instead of taking it personally. Thank you

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It's been happening since the beginning of our time in this country, they use us to hold each other down. Happens with other races to, I've seen it and had it happen to me.

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The is a misunderstanding that all the racial issues we face are coming from the outside.

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I am happy I am the only black person in my team. Can't stand how some of us can be so familiar. It is like this in life in general, unfortunately.

Yup, I’ve always experienced this.

Learn how to take a word of advice. In my case, I have given honest word of advice to some young black professionals joining the firm, and they get offended. The world is not out there to get you. A lot of us want to help our own people but we make it difficult for ourselves.

I think some of it is truly cultural in a sense of trying to keep you striving for better. BUT…when they’re just doing it without any structured guidance, then they might be gate keeping.

I’m pretty direct, so I usually end up asking them what’s going on at a certain point because nobody wants to hear all that all the time lol

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