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I cheated... we aren’t supposed to do real art in the morning. We watch an art video and discuss in the morning, then in the afternoon we post an instructional video and the kids do a small project at home... I cheated yesterday. I handed out air dry clay and went to town with my 3rd grades.... the kids said it was the most fun art class ever. I will get in trouble for passing stuff out, but I needed it. So did the kids. Best art day all year!

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For folks who are in Marketing, how good are you at SQL, and analyzing A/B test (think statistical significance p-value etc.) My SO comes from a marketing background (non-tech) and has been applying..

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Any PwC parents here? I am only 6 weeks pregnant and have absolutely no idea about anything. Any advice you have on timing and or what I need to do … would appreciate it!

Parent died with accounts at Fidelity Investments. FYI Fidelity made one of the hardest periods of my life worse—“lost” documents, inconsistent policies, four days to respond to an email, non-communication between teams, outright lies. I don’t know how an organizational process can be so mismanaged. They have literal interns (mis)handling the entire transfer process.

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I found out I am ~ 5.5 weeks pregnant after I missed my periods and through blood tests. Few days back I had sore breasts and stomach cramping.

Although I still have cramping but the breast soreness has reduced a bit.

Should I be worried? I have ultrasound scheduled this Friday!

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Laid off in May and now applying for a new full time role w previous employer. I’ve also been approached by someone in a related team at same company for a contract role through at least next May. The hitch is I’m 4 mo pregnant, due in late Feb. I feel like I’ll need to disclose this for the contract role but I don’t want to potentially jeopardize the FT opportunity. What would you do? So far I’ve just said I’d be interested in considering the contract if the FT position doesn’t work out.

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So, how much work are you giving elementary students? I just got the calendar from my kid’s teacher. While I am teaching from home, I’m supposed to make sure my kid does 4+ hours of work.

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Anyone have any experience with high deductible insurance plans with a newborn? Trying to decided if I should add my newborn onto my HDHP (I've met my $2700 deductible through delivery but my baby will have his own $2700 deductible to meet). Alternatively I could add him to my spouses regular insurance with a lower deductible/higher premium.

Hi fishes. I am social work professional with 6 YOE in international NGOs. I am looking for opportunities in CSR / INGO /Consulting firms / Impact organisations. Please share if there are any leads.
I have worked in Education, Skill development, Child protection, Health and Adolescent and youth empowerment domains.
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Need tips for dating someone with a kid

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What kid of job role is Sales and ops manager? Is it something that I as a Senior Salesforce Administrator should look forward?
The JD has all responsibility matching an Admin job but the title ka confusing

Got an offer from a startup with no maternity policy so I’m negotiating for one. State mandates 9 weeks paid, but how long did you 🐠 realistically need? Is part time return helpful?

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My husband already picks up a disproportionate amount of household duties due to my hours. Since I’ve been pregnant and miserable, he’s picked up even more (we have a 2 year old). ...

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How do you all set boundaries and keep work from creeping into your time with your family every day? As a new mom going back to work I’m finding this to be difficult. I was always available and did whatever needed to be done before having a child, but now I really want to be able to shut down at the end of the day and be done, so I can soak up time with my baby.

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I never beat these games when I had them on my Sega Genesis as a kid. Picked it up from Walmart today for $5, pretty excited

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For the moms - what type of maternity benefits does your firm provide? What are the best ones out there?

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Have a question to Asians here. I’m mid-30s from Asia and am making lower end of 6 figures currently. My older sister was making more than I did until a few months back and lost one job due to covid so is now not making much. But she is married and has a house and a car of her own. She spends a lot of money on herself and buys gifts to her boyfriends/lovers. I just found out mom is going through major surgery in my home country and it costs nearly 6k. I asked if she wanted us to help her pay.

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Is it a good idea to look for new jobs at the same time of planning for getting pregnant? Do companies have policies around how long you need to be around before you can take maternity leave? If they hire me when I’m 3 months pregnant, should I mention that I’m expecting in 6 months?

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Single women in STEM, do you have to field questions about being single during the holidays like I do? I'm 27, and every single Christmas my mother or grandmother ask me if I've "met any nice boys" and "when I'm planning to make time for a family." I get that they're coming from a good place, but I'd love for them to ask me about my work and how fulfilling that is instead. Tips for (kindly) getting family off your back?

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I am dealing with depression and anxiety due to upcoming criminal charges against my father and his partner (im the one pressing charges), a DOR diagnosis (I am single, 33 and AMH of 0.23 with no contributing lifestyle factors), a failed first egg freezing cycle, and fear of losing my job due to being on the bench for nearly 3mos. I don’t know what to do and am feeling increasingly desperate. (cont’)

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I own a small residential interior design company in a mid sized city in the Midwest. “Hiring” an entry level designer that is still in design school—however she’s been working at our company for a year in procurement role, so she has some relevant experience. Any thoughts on pay?

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What’s the compensation for Business Strategy/Business Planning roles at Microsoft and other companies? Comparable to Consulting and Corporate Strategy roles?

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What’s the average hourly freelance rate for digital art directors with 3 years of experience in NYC?

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Wear a mask

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anyone wanna date me? i’m single 🥺

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Hello! I’m looking for assistance in developing a marketing/sales strategy & someone who can pitch the product to the target customers. Anybody capable of doing this?

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From my Facebook feed. This helped me and I hope it helps you, too. ❤️

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Knowledge Transition is so pathetic in Optum . Is there any one who also faced the same in Optum?

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Completed 4 rounds at @microsoft 3 were technical .. 4th was kind of AA where interviewer was senior and asked some normal questions(where do you see yourself in 5 years, greatest achievement).

What are the chances of getting offer from #microsoft ?

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Happy Summer Friday y’all! Is it just a yt woman phrase to say that anything that’s dope is “so fun!”?

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Need a working flatmate
Spacious 2bhk in Springfield society, Kharadi.
(Opposite to Reliance mart, less than 2km from WTC)
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Monthly rent 25.5k
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All above expenses to be divided by 2.

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I suddenly have more black heads on my nose then the usual. Only thing different I did is that I am now using Paula’s Choice 2% BHA toner and I got a facial 2 weeks ago. Could it be the toner? Are facials one of those things where if you get it done once, you’ll need to always keep getting it? Last time I got a facial before that time was September 2021. Help :( what to do to get rid of subborn black heads?

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I have a PR background and most of my experience is in the free lance area. I have worked in CS leadership for many years but would love to transition my career to a PR role, any recommendations anyone can provide on what I can start doing more of to transition my career? I am about 1.5 years from completing my Bachelor's in communications degree.

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How has the year been so far for you guys? I started fairly new and already know of 6 people who left the company. Don’t know if this is due to coincidence or sth with the company.

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New to Robinhood. I was trying to sell stocks & i was restricted with message “pattern day trading”- how to get away with this ?

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Cayenne Coupe base model or Marcan S

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Thank y’all for starting this bowl! Newly expecting mama here 🤰🏾I’ll be 11 weeks tomorrow! My husband and I are praying that I give birth to healthy 🤴🏾 or 👸🏾. I look forward to learning from this group!

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Am I tripping? Everyone loves calling my daughter (2 months) "lil chocolate drop" or "look at all that chocolate". I love my daughter's complexion, not only because it's mine, but because it's beautiful. However, I can't help but feeling like ppl "other" or make it weird by avoiding saying dark. Calling her dark is acceptable and appreciated. I know "chocolate" comes from a place of affection, but I just can't embrace it 💯.

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Seeing local parents reacting to the public school lottery results in DC, got me super nervous about when it’s my kids turn.

I hate the idea of having so little control.

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Hi Parents, need recommendation for taking care of kids hair. My kids are mixed race and their hair gets easily tangled to the point where we spend an hour to untangle the mess. Hair is also dry and the conditioner and or oil doesn’t seem to help. What are some of your go to products and routine? TIA

New Dad here. 8 weeks in and I don’t feel the imagined bell and whistles of fatherhood. Is this normal?

Talk to me about discipline. What age did you really start laying down the law? Im patiently waiting out the terrible twos but at some point will need to reign it in if this continues...

Anyone have kids that struggle with night terrors?

My daughter had one for the first time last night and it scared the crap out of me. It was like she didn’t know who I was.

My 5 year old son demanded a haircut because he doesnt like his curly hair. Its too curly. He wants hair thats like Fletcher's. (Fletcher is his white friend from day care). My son and his sister are the only blacks at the day care. I dont know how to broach the subject with him.

Ladies, any suggestions our 8th anniversary gift for the wife? We are in our early 30s. I am running out of ideas over the year 😔.

Any of the sisters deal with gestational diabetes but already had a restrictive diet pre and during pregnancy?
Doctor says I have it, but I honestly don’t believe them. I don’t eat cane sugar (not even in sauces), gluten, dairy, or soy. So not surprised I couldn’t process their drink-I don’t consume stuff like that regularly. I walk a mile or do HIIT training 5x/ week. The condition doesn’t run in my family (and my mom has 4 sisters w/kids-good sample size) (cont’d in comments)

Potential unintended consequences of my parenting decisions is the most stressful thing ever.

The “right” approach can feel so clear one moment, then feel like a huge mistake the next.

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Where can I get good and affordable baby clothes 0-3 months?

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Do any parents have a Lovevery discount code? Also, are there other similar services I should look it? Our LO is due in 3 weeks. So, I want to get him off to a good start.

Any homeschool parents in the group?

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How much per week/month do you spend on daycare?

Thanks all for this group. 1st time expecting dad 🧔🏾.

I’m a little bit all-over the place and not sure where to start financial planning from.

I live in a Tier-1 city and think it’s necessarily to move to Tier-3. It’s important that my kids grow up in a house vs. apartment. Also need to stretch my dollar as far as possible.

Total comp - $180K

How much should I budget for the 1st year of baby?

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I am a city boy but good god why are schools in the city not good. I’m personally against private school and am a product of nyc public schools and I came out fine but idk g

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