Do you feel your ADHD impacts your performance in client meetings?

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Yes. I find it hard to take notes while listening and actually processing what the client is saying due to slower auditory processing. That paired with the crappy memory is really hard to get past. My colleagues absorb a lot more info from client meetings than I am able to

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Honestly, not really.

80-90% of the words that come out of people’s mouths in client meetings longer than 15 minutes are irrelevant. It took me decades to fully embrace that fact.

Trick is to identify the important 10 - 20% while remaining engaged - or at least appearing engaged. If you can do that, you’re doing good.

Most of my client meetings now I either opt out of and let other people deal, or I keep them to 15 minutes or quick calls or text/audio message exchanges. Async comms is more efficient for most.

The only exception is if you’re leading a meeting like an investor preso/demo or hosting a workshop. Then the effort comes in to making sure you invite the right people, and it’s ok to politely dismiss people who don’t need to be there.

I also think it’s better to have 4 1:1’s than have a group meeting unless they all have the same job. The engineer and the salesperson almost never need to be in the same room at the same time. And sometimes it’s better when they’re not.

I am horrible at taking notes. H O R R I B L E. I always had been in school but I could get by because I have a really good memory and would be able to recognize when something was important enough to remember.

The issue with consulting is I have yet to be able to understand what is important, especially since a lot of meetings revolve around things I may not have worked on.

I hate that we STILL force lower levels to take notes and send recaps on things they are not working on. If it were me I would have each person take the notes on the things they own rather than make an analyst do it who just is transcribing.

Also, with all the tech available for note-taking and transcripting it sucks that it is still something we have a person doing.

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