Do you sometimes think your depression is too severe?

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Same as Partner 1. I struggle daily.

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Yes. Often. There are days where my thoughts are incredibly dark and it's hit or miss on whether I'm getting through that day.

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Oof, been there. Sending you all love

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Yes. Struggling immensely.

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