Does not drinking influence your career prospects? Team wants to have a virtual happy hour, I don't want to be "that guy"

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Just take a blunt and light it up

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Not drinking does not affect your career prospects. I would argue that not attending MIGHT affect your career prospects.

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^this I don’t drink and never have. It’s not an issue because I still participate

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Nobody can tell or really minds if you don’t drink. I don’t drink on virtual happy hours all the time. It’s no big deal 😁

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Just get a tall glass of water and say you’re drinking vodka tonight, everyone will think you’re the life of the party!

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Drink a cokeAnd say it’s rum and coke, drink water and say you have to go drive later, Or you could also just not be ashamed of yourself and say you’re not drinking.

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Seltzer with a lime

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I’ll always get a tonic and lime at the bar and just put a cocktail straw in it. You’ll look the part

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No one cares what you are or are not drinking...you are good!

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Barley tea, cold-brewed at double strength, a nice ice cube, a little simple syrup, and a few dashes of bitters looks convincing as hell on camera. And it tastes pretty good 👍

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Don’t drink and own it. As a drinker I have more respect for people who don’t drink.

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Drink tonic water with a lime. Nobody will ask. If you drink socially it’s fine to drink professionally. If you don’t drink socially, don’t drink professionally. But whatever you do do not drink too much. As an intern, 2 beers is fine.

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There’s a ton of alcoholic seltzer’s out there now, just grab your favorite non alcoholic one and enjoy!

Get over yourself and order a soda water at the bar or pour yourself anything you like for a virtual happy hour

No it doesn’t. I used to drink a lot and then stopped drinking about a year ago and have not experienced any difference in my ability to socialize and connect with teams and clients.

No one cares really

Never ask a woman if she’s pregnant or anyone why they don’t drink

You don’t need to fake it or lie about what you are or aren’t drinking. As long as you are participating and having fun, no one cares.

Grow up. Fill up a damn glass with water if your that fragile. Man no wonder why we are where we are with this pandemic.

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