Everyone is getting married. But me. Everyone is MBAing, but me. 😭😭

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Everyone is getting promoted, but me.

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Have not gotten married or MBA'd. You're not alone

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I'm married and I have an MBA. I bet you're still doing better than me, OP.

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P1 you are not alone. It is the fate of many Seniors this year.

I hear you. I hear you. Same boat.

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