Friday night - having an existential crisis. We do so much for what? Should have become a doctor

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There are ways you can still go about doing this without the barrier to entry that standard medical doctors face. I’m going to chiropractic school and will practice chiro, functional medicine, and nutrition. I’m a strong critic of conventional medicine and the conflicts of interest and lack of preventative training or addressing of root causes that take place among standard medical doctors so it’s perfect for me. It will take 3 years, no MCAT required. Explore your options, it’s never too late to do something meaningful with your life

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Finished med school, did part of a residency and now in consulting....pretty happy I didn’t stay and have many friends who wish they’d jumped when I did.

I always tell people “unless medicine is the ONLY thing you can see yourself doing, do anything else.” Consulting isn’t perfect either but I enjoy having more than 4 days off a month and not referring to having both Saturday and Sunday off as a “golden weekend"

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Thank you. I still think it’s a respectable and limitless profession in how you want to work your degree. Is medical school as difficult as the public makes it out to be?

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That’s the blessing and the curse. Your work may feel meaningless (most of it probably is from my experience) but, if you mess up, nobody dies

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Coming from a family and extended family of mostly doctors the one piece of advice I received consistently was ‘don’t go into medicine’. Maybe that was just their five negative experiences but the grass isn’t always greener. Even when you feel like a profession is your calling you still may end up miserable.

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Deloitte 2: Ditto! My dad drilled that into me starting with when I began making rounds with him at the age of 4

I often think if I had the brain I’d def be a doctor. I’m with you, OP. There are many other ways to have a meaningful life thou (e.g., volunteer, pro bono projects)

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Doctors are very depressing. My best friend is one and he has no remorse for people dying. It’s part of the job and all they talk about is how many hours they have to work and how inconvenient patients are. It’s a shitty life

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Well, you could still become a doctor

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When you leave and your position gets repurposed....

Having married a doctor I am so thankful that I did not go that route. Way more work and no pay till you are almost 30

Hell no.

I don’t seek gratification through my means of attaining funds. Payday is gratification enough.

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