Hi! I'm new here... I'm an unemployed Gen-Xer looking for work and dealing with a lot of anxiety and depression. It's making me feel overwhelmed and exhausted. I've had some health issues this past year so that's challenging as well. I'm beginning to doubt my ability to get a job at this point, at least one within reasonable commuting distance. I need a glimmer of hope to keep going!

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Hang in there, take it one day at a time.

The market is slow in certain pockets, but do what you can each day to achieve your goal.

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Don’t give up. I agree with FM1- one day at a time. You’re certainly not alone. I’m 🙏🏼 2026 is a better year.

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Considering data science roles at :
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trying out EY GPS aim for SC
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-any perspectives appreciated

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Hey all!!
Hope you all are doing good.
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Healthcare corporations… please note you have more then 1 shift of workers. You have 3 most times, each shift has to be treated equally. This is and always have been an issue, and you cannot figure out why the other shifts refuse to be active and participate in anything and definitely not engaged anymore.

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